Alex
26.07.2004, 20:39
Hello. Very much it would be desirable to read through opinion spetsialista-androloga in occasion of my sex problems.
To me 31 year. The sex life in a broad sense this word has begun with a masturbation in 12 years. Precisely I remember, that at that time secondary sexual attributes at me yet were not, as was not the first some times and ejaculations. Special fears in occasion of consequences of a masturbation had no, as was well prosveshchen in this question from the read through literature. At first it could not be kept not testing these sensations some times in day, then vse-taki it began to be limited razom in day. Such frequency of a "sexual" life adhered to years up to 20. Rough sexual development in which advanced the majority of contempoparies After a while has begun.
The sex inclination with most has begun has accepted obviously homosexual character. As in imaginations, and in reality involved men, and adults and strongly pronounced maskulinnogo type. Psychologically and emotionally differed from contempoparies of a male - it is not aggressive, indifferent to technics or technical equipment, it is sensitive, etc. In 13 years the petting, oral sex has got in the company parnej-contempoparies who practised a joint masturbation, occasionally. From now on has realized (or has thought up, it to you to judge) the problems. I have paid attention that at me the erection, so to say, is worse quality, than at all my friends. The member increases or is enlarged in sizes and hardens, but remains on polshestogo , t. e. At the basis almost not strained or intense and in general, "more softly", than at others. The erection not long, amplifies at immediate mechanical influence, but the member starts "to fall" literally within seconds after that termination or discontinuance. The ejaculation came much earlier, than at the others.
For friends our attitudes or relations were simply a substitute of "usual" sex, and to 15 years they send or have passed on geteroseksualnye communications or connections, my destiny there was a masturbation. At all thus till 18 years I did not admit to myself that the homosexual. The majority of contempoparies have overtaken me in development, I am not so high (176 sm - below the father and the brother), with far not an athletic figure (narrow shoulders, rather wide femurs though tried to go in for sports), thin extremities, length eregirovannogo a member - 12 sm, he is strongly bent downwards, testicles small.
From the very beginning (t. e. With 12 ti years) involve, we shall tell or say so, deviantnye forms of satisfaction of sex needs or requirements - vuajerizm, a pornography, involve more strongly than, sex contact. It does not arrange me, I with it or this try to struggle. By the way, at such "sex" the ejaculation comes almost instantly, sometimes at full absence of an erection, after it or her I test a strong breakdown, me simply shakes, legs or foots podkashivajutsja.
Years with 20 ti kak-that has sharply decreased a sexual inclination (ridiculous in this case the formulation - to what, to a masturbation?), The erection became even worse. In 22 years has met in the girl who persistently dragged me in bed. Tried to make without results the certificate or act within several months, the sufficient erection for introduction did not come at any stimulation - oral, etc. (as now I understand, fault to all pavor before failure). Has addressed for the first time to the urologist and the sexopathologist. Used under their reference medicinal preparations: tenteks + mastong + himkolin - a long course, Gonadotropinum - 10 injections, sustanon - 4 injections, johimbin - 1 course, and also vazotonizirujushchie agents - Escuzanum, Anavenolum. Influence on an erection and libido - zero. The sexopathologist has made a nyxis of a papaverine, has checked up any device as he has told or said, inflow of a blood - it has appeared in norm or rate, and has given a direction on operation during which to me have narrowed a lumen of veins of a sexual member in three places. I am sorry for my explanations, I in these questions the layman, extracts were not saved, it was 8 years ago.
After operation the erection became simply remarkable, I have happily overslept with the girl, and within a month we were engaged in sex on 3 4 times a week. At me was up to 3 ejaculations for a night though such excesses were for me too. I for the first time have felt an inclination to the sexual certificate or act, was raised or excited at an idea about itself. And in general has felt the person, have passed or have taken place obsessional desires to deviantnym to ways of satisfaction of a sexual inclination though geteroseksualom I did not become. In a consequence we have got married and at us the son was born.
In a month, however, the effect of operation has come to naught also an erection became former. All my complexes and problems have returned. It was However, found out, as my usual erection is sufficient for carrying out of the sexual certificate or act. We slept or burn with the wife bolee-less on a regular basis 1 3 times a week within 6 years, that for me was mnogovato, and it is not enough for the wife, though she and did not complain, I felt it. The certificate or act usually proceeded under following "script": first exaltation and a satisfactory erection (satisfactory in sense sufficient for introduction ), then the erection (before introduction or after, without a difference) started to decrease, sometimes vanished at all (especially, at the termination or discontinuance friktsy), the truth practically in 100 % of cases managed to finish the certificate or act though an ejaculation reached or achieved hardly. Even directly ahead of and during an ejaculation the member remained rather "soft". Sometimes on the contrary, the ejaculation came already after the first friktsy, but too at an average degree of a strain of a member. All this on a background rather average libido. - former it is regular masturbiroval, I am at a loss to tell or say why, whether sex did not give a physiological or psychological discharge, whether the masturbation became obsessional. Nevertheless, 2 3 times a year at me happened "flashes" of sex activity by duration about one week to a strong inclination and exaltation, daily sex and bolee-less long erection. Every year, the truth, it happened or was possible all less often. Has noticed, that my activity in this plan positively is influenced with courses of Polyvitaminums, biostimulators of type eleuterokokka. I again addressed to the sexopathologist, but he has politely expressed meaning that at you regular sex - that you still want?!
I also had once a certificate or an act with the guy, I tested very strong inclination to this person, it is possible to tell or say, have been enamoured, but my "characteristics" were as always, except for extreme moral satisfaction, I would tell or say, simplification. These attitudes or relations have not received any continuation, t. To. He geteroseksualen.
In 6 years of a joint life we have left the wife, but not on sex motives. Only when our attitudes or relations absolutely became bad, she is some times cunning up to oskorbeleny in my address of type where to you with your size .
Within 2 years had no sexual partner. Half a year began to meet the woman back. She married, our occurrings are irregular, sometimes 2 times a week, sometimes time in 2 weeks. She is very happy, I in the address hear simply "dithyrambs". It, certainly, very much helps or assists me, but all the above described problems have remained with me, and I am measured or going to understand their short and to solve (if they razreshima). Has again addressed to the sexopathologist (another). He considers or counts, that prolemy have psychogenic character. It agree with it or him. And still Under the reference of the doctor applied viagra - 1 j time of 50 mg following - in 2 times a smaller dose, then in 2 times it is less, etc. In its or his opinion viagra should remove or take off consequences of " a syndrome of expectation of failure , and the effect should be independent of a dose. The effect, certainly, was, even it seemed to me, that the member increased or was enlarged more usual, however all the same an erection, in the beginning good, then weakened, and the effect obviously decreased with a dose.
I think, pertinently to result or bring all problems of the urological plan which kogda-or had. With 14 ti years periodically there are pains in the right testicle, in the top part, sometimes strong, painfully to touch. Any doctor has not found out any pathology. In 2 months after the beginning of a regular sexual life with the wife have appeared plentiful allocation from a urethra, has addressed to the familiar urologist, that has appointed or nominated antibiotics and massage of a prostate. Then to me have told or said, that at me is parauretralnye channels. After treatment the problem did not repeat, all inspections fixed norm or rate, however doctors (annually I pass or I take place survey at the urologist) were always dissatisfied" with my prostate, I quote: Any flat (8 years ago), small, unexercised (2 months ago) - and how it or her then to train? At me, so to say, on the face all attributes of the weak sexual constitution: any stress, loads reduce libido and worsen an erection, the slightest dose spirnogo - and in general is not present it or her, after an ejaculation the erection too disappears instantly. Especially weak erection in a dorsal decubitus. Morning erections at me always were rare or infrequent and weak. However, once again I shall repeat, all these "parameters" amplified during the periods of "splashes". However, recently these "splashes" happen only at reception of stimulators (last time - apilaka), and for them it is necessary to pay off with long "depression" when well at all "costs or stands". Continence does not lead to intensifying of an inclination, the erection becomes absolutely weak. So, - former 1 2 once a week masturbiruju, the erection is frequently worse, than during the certificate or act. With partnershej, as a rule, happens two certificates or acts successively to the small break, second time an erection sometimes happens better, but an ejaculation I reach or achieve with greater or big work. I feel, that such frequency of ejaculations (4 6 in a week) for me the violence over self is already simple and leads to that at occurrings with partnershej special sex famine I do not test, but consequences continence are even worse. Besides the need or requirement for a masturbation wears, as it seems to me, obsessional character - without it or this I can not sometimes fall asleep or get rid of ideas on the problems. At the certificate or act a degree of my moral and cleanly physiological satisfaction in direct ratio degrees of a strain of my member. I also cannot use a condom so in this case the erection vanishes in general.
Yes, eho-and an electroencephalogram at me in norm or rate, with a backbone, the truth, problems - verebrogennaja ljumbalgija, but no more serious changes are present.
Questions: had and whether take a place hormonal disturbances? If yes, whether has sense something to undertake? What researches can unequivocally separate the psychogenic factor and confirm or deny presence of erectile dysfunctions, in particular venous leakage? Whether last Gives in to correction? Whether have negative consequences for an erection of an ejaculation at a weak erection or its or her absence? How much or As far as nevertheless operation on cavernous bodies with the purpose of decrease of curvature of a member (I know, what any operation is badly, and still ) is complex or difficult and safe?
To me 31 year. The sex life in a broad sense this word has begun with a masturbation in 12 years. Precisely I remember, that at that time secondary sexual attributes at me yet were not, as was not the first some times and ejaculations. Special fears in occasion of consequences of a masturbation had no, as was well prosveshchen in this question from the read through literature. At first it could not be kept not testing these sensations some times in day, then vse-taki it began to be limited razom in day. Such frequency of a "sexual" life adhered to years up to 20. Rough sexual development in which advanced the majority of contempoparies After a while has begun.
The sex inclination with most has begun has accepted obviously homosexual character. As in imaginations, and in reality involved men, and adults and strongly pronounced maskulinnogo type. Psychologically and emotionally differed from contempoparies of a male - it is not aggressive, indifferent to technics or technical equipment, it is sensitive, etc. In 13 years the petting, oral sex has got in the company parnej-contempoparies who practised a joint masturbation, occasionally. From now on has realized (or has thought up, it to you to judge) the problems. I have paid attention that at me the erection, so to say, is worse quality, than at all my friends. The member increases or is enlarged in sizes and hardens, but remains on polshestogo , t. e. At the basis almost not strained or intense and in general, "more softly", than at others. The erection not long, amplifies at immediate mechanical influence, but the member starts "to fall" literally within seconds after that termination or discontinuance. The ejaculation came much earlier, than at the others.
For friends our attitudes or relations were simply a substitute of "usual" sex, and to 15 years they send or have passed on geteroseksualnye communications or connections, my destiny there was a masturbation. At all thus till 18 years I did not admit to myself that the homosexual. The majority of contempoparies have overtaken me in development, I am not so high (176 sm - below the father and the brother), with far not an athletic figure (narrow shoulders, rather wide femurs though tried to go in for sports), thin extremities, length eregirovannogo a member - 12 sm, he is strongly bent downwards, testicles small.
From the very beginning (t. e. With 12 ti years) involve, we shall tell or say so, deviantnye forms of satisfaction of sex needs or requirements - vuajerizm, a pornography, involve more strongly than, sex contact. It does not arrange me, I with it or this try to struggle. By the way, at such "sex" the ejaculation comes almost instantly, sometimes at full absence of an erection, after it or her I test a strong breakdown, me simply shakes, legs or foots podkashivajutsja.
Years with 20 ti kak-that has sharply decreased a sexual inclination (ridiculous in this case the formulation - to what, to a masturbation?), The erection became even worse. In 22 years has met in the girl who persistently dragged me in bed. Tried to make without results the certificate or act within several months, the sufficient erection for introduction did not come at any stimulation - oral, etc. (as now I understand, fault to all pavor before failure). Has addressed for the first time to the urologist and the sexopathologist. Used under their reference medicinal preparations: tenteks + mastong + himkolin - a long course, Gonadotropinum - 10 injections, sustanon - 4 injections, johimbin - 1 course, and also vazotonizirujushchie agents - Escuzanum, Anavenolum. Influence on an erection and libido - zero. The sexopathologist has made a nyxis of a papaverine, has checked up any device as he has told or said, inflow of a blood - it has appeared in norm or rate, and has given a direction on operation during which to me have narrowed a lumen of veins of a sexual member in three places. I am sorry for my explanations, I in these questions the layman, extracts were not saved, it was 8 years ago.
After operation the erection became simply remarkable, I have happily overslept with the girl, and within a month we were engaged in sex on 3 4 times a week. At me was up to 3 ejaculations for a night though such excesses were for me too. I for the first time have felt an inclination to the sexual certificate or act, was raised or excited at an idea about itself. And in general has felt the person, have passed or have taken place obsessional desires to deviantnym to ways of satisfaction of a sexual inclination though geteroseksualom I did not become. In a consequence we have got married and at us the son was born.
In a month, however, the effect of operation has come to naught also an erection became former. All my complexes and problems have returned. It was However, found out, as my usual erection is sufficient for carrying out of the sexual certificate or act. We slept or burn with the wife bolee-less on a regular basis 1 3 times a week within 6 years, that for me was mnogovato, and it is not enough for the wife, though she and did not complain, I felt it. The certificate or act usually proceeded under following "script": first exaltation and a satisfactory erection (satisfactory in sense sufficient for introduction ), then the erection (before introduction or after, without a difference) started to decrease, sometimes vanished at all (especially, at the termination or discontinuance friktsy), the truth practically in 100 % of cases managed to finish the certificate or act though an ejaculation reached or achieved hardly. Even directly ahead of and during an ejaculation the member remained rather "soft". Sometimes on the contrary, the ejaculation came already after the first friktsy, but too at an average degree of a strain of a member. All this on a background rather average libido. - former it is regular masturbiroval, I am at a loss to tell or say why, whether sex did not give a physiological or psychological discharge, whether the masturbation became obsessional. Nevertheless, 2 3 times a year at me happened "flashes" of sex activity by duration about one week to a strong inclination and exaltation, daily sex and bolee-less long erection. Every year, the truth, it happened or was possible all less often. Has noticed, that my activity in this plan positively is influenced with courses of Polyvitaminums, biostimulators of type eleuterokokka. I again addressed to the sexopathologist, but he has politely expressed meaning that at you regular sex - that you still want?!
I also had once a certificate or an act with the guy, I tested very strong inclination to this person, it is possible to tell or say, have been enamoured, but my "characteristics" were as always, except for extreme moral satisfaction, I would tell or say, simplification. These attitudes or relations have not received any continuation, t. To. He geteroseksualen.
In 6 years of a joint life we have left the wife, but not on sex motives. Only when our attitudes or relations absolutely became bad, she is some times cunning up to oskorbeleny in my address of type where to you with your size .
Within 2 years had no sexual partner. Half a year began to meet the woman back. She married, our occurrings are irregular, sometimes 2 times a week, sometimes time in 2 weeks. She is very happy, I in the address hear simply "dithyrambs". It, certainly, very much helps or assists me, but all the above described problems have remained with me, and I am measured or going to understand their short and to solve (if they razreshima). Has again addressed to the sexopathologist (another). He considers or counts, that prolemy have psychogenic character. It agree with it or him. And still Under the reference of the doctor applied viagra - 1 j time of 50 mg following - in 2 times a smaller dose, then in 2 times it is less, etc. In its or his opinion viagra should remove or take off consequences of " a syndrome of expectation of failure , and the effect should be independent of a dose. The effect, certainly, was, even it seemed to me, that the member increased or was enlarged more usual, however all the same an erection, in the beginning good, then weakened, and the effect obviously decreased with a dose.
I think, pertinently to result or bring all problems of the urological plan which kogda-or had. With 14 ti years periodically there are pains in the right testicle, in the top part, sometimes strong, painfully to touch. Any doctor has not found out any pathology. In 2 months after the beginning of a regular sexual life with the wife have appeared plentiful allocation from a urethra, has addressed to the familiar urologist, that has appointed or nominated antibiotics and massage of a prostate. Then to me have told or said, that at me is parauretralnye channels. After treatment the problem did not repeat, all inspections fixed norm or rate, however doctors (annually I pass or I take place survey at the urologist) were always dissatisfied" with my prostate, I quote: Any flat (8 years ago), small, unexercised (2 months ago) - and how it or her then to train? At me, so to say, on the face all attributes of the weak sexual constitution: any stress, loads reduce libido and worsen an erection, the slightest dose spirnogo - and in general is not present it or her, after an ejaculation the erection too disappears instantly. Especially weak erection in a dorsal decubitus. Morning erections at me always were rare or infrequent and weak. However, once again I shall repeat, all these "parameters" amplified during the periods of "splashes". However, recently these "splashes" happen only at reception of stimulators (last time - apilaka), and for them it is necessary to pay off with long "depression" when well at all "costs or stands". Continence does not lead to intensifying of an inclination, the erection becomes absolutely weak. So, - former 1 2 once a week masturbiruju, the erection is frequently worse, than during the certificate or act. With partnershej, as a rule, happens two certificates or acts successively to the small break, second time an erection sometimes happens better, but an ejaculation I reach or achieve with greater or big work. I feel, that such frequency of ejaculations (4 6 in a week) for me the violence over self is already simple and leads to that at occurrings with partnershej special sex famine I do not test, but consequences continence are even worse. Besides the need or requirement for a masturbation wears, as it seems to me, obsessional character - without it or this I can not sometimes fall asleep or get rid of ideas on the problems. At the certificate or act a degree of my moral and cleanly physiological satisfaction in direct ratio degrees of a strain of my member. I also cannot use a condom so in this case the erection vanishes in general.
Yes, eho-and an electroencephalogram at me in norm or rate, with a backbone, the truth, problems - verebrogennaja ljumbalgija, but no more serious changes are present.
Questions: had and whether take a place hormonal disturbances? If yes, whether has sense something to undertake? What researches can unequivocally separate the psychogenic factor and confirm or deny presence of erectile dysfunctions, in particular venous leakage? Whether last Gives in to correction? Whether have negative consequences for an erection of an ejaculation at a weak erection or its or her absence? How much or As far as nevertheless operation on cavernous bodies with the purpose of decrease of curvature of a member (I know, what any operation is badly, and still ) is complex or difficult and safe?