Such here a problem!

[secretranger]

I can not understand myself! I Hope for your help! To me of 17 years and I for the present the virgin! The matter is that is sexly me raise or excite only men! But I am absolutely adequate and I do not behave as the gay!! Anybody from my friends yes in general knows nobody and does not guess it or this!! But I do not wish to be the gay, I want, that I was raised or excited by girls! Whether there Was I only girls and me they spiritually or ljubovno that involve more!! That is to fall in love with the man I at all do not represent possible or probable and is deep against weddings unisex! Affected gays and cute boys in general I can not suffer or bear, though there is one familiar gay, but he too normally conducts itself(himself), therefore to it or him;them normally I concern! I wish to have family and children, but I am afraid, that I can not satisfy the wife sexly! And if I admit, that basically there is an inclination to men, even if I and will be grown fond by someone it already will be other attitude or relation! Before veins to itself it is quiet, but 17 years and friends everyone ask, when I already to lose virginity am going to! To admit to friends basically me it is not so complex or difficult, I am assured or confident, that they will remain friends too we are connected strong! But the attitude or relation in a any way will change, not by way of a positive/negative, and behaviour!! Well conversations there everyones about sex now will be not such, shutochki probably will be any, and girls then will not perceive me as potential lover, only as friend!! If to the daddy to tell or say, he in general will very strongly be upset, I am assured or confident!! I of type the only heir and here such!! And mum will blame itself before the daddy, so she with it or him in divorce and through our education (with the sister) tries to seem to him good mother!! Voobshchem, I can is still long raspinatsja in occasion of guesses about the reasons, about the ideas, etc.!! About it or this next time!! Voobshchem what to do or make? Whether it is necessary to speak friends? As well as the it is better to tell or say, if it is necessary? Whether and in general the gay I? In advance thanks for the help!!

[baryshnia]

It is healthy in 17 years so fine to formulate the ideas! You in fact clever and almost adult young man. Well so tell or say please, what for to you in 17 years to lose virginity? What for to climb in sexual communications or connections if as I have correctly understood, you there is nobody has not fallen in love while. That was, what to friends to tell? Well so it is silly! Itself you understand probably. Sex (both with the man and with the woman) delivers pleasure and it is meaningful, when there is a love.. I.e. when to like you any quite concrete person. You are enamoured in any guy? What means you raise or excite men? They are any alive people? Or pornuha? I can give one efficient advice or council: do not hurry up!!! Neither to climb to girls, nor to be given men. In 17 years it there can be simply hormonal kinks which with the years will pass or take place. It is better to lose virginity at 20-21, but intelligently! Knowing that and whom you want.

[secretranger]

The young lady, thanks you for advice or council!! But I at all do not do or make accent or stress on loss of virginity!! I have told or said, that I the virgin that it was clear, that sex experience at me was not also all! Raises or excites me as well as a man's porno, and poluobnazhennye "alive" men on a beach. And it lasts 5 years! I simply already wish to understand eventually who I! And to lose virginity as soon as possible I absolutely and was not going to!! Simply I understand, that an inclination (sex) to men at me there will not pass or will not take place and as (you have told or said) I already almost adult person, I wish to enter into an adult life with firm comprehension of the desires. Whether I simply am or be interested it is necessary to me to recognize the homosexuality or there is a method to become or begin geteroseksualom!

[baryshnia]

To understand, who you actually and that you want it is necessary to try or taste. Probably each woman though time in a life tried to embrace, kiss the woman. And the female porno women too raises or excites us. Years in 15 we with girl-friends tried or tasted something like a petting and was very much even anything. But it was more likely game.. Also has understood, already then, that men are necessary to me only. And in 17 years I without mind or wit have fallen in love with the man, have married, and the idea on the woman somehow at all does not raise or excite me. Very much I like men:-) but! lezbijskoe the porno at all this raises or excites and more as! I to what all this... Our sexuality - a thing not such unequivocal! Therefore to me it seems to you it is not necessary to do or make right now unequivocal conclusions about itself. Communicate to itself both with young men and with girls. Wait while to a sex inclination to increase the feeling.. And all will rise on the places. Well there will be it the man, means so to that and to be. Anything such terrible in it or this is not present. And you can in the girl vljubishsja? With a harmonous brawny figure?!

[The doctor the sexologist]

Hello secretranger

If you are, conditionally speaking, at a stage of a choice and cannot make it independently. That is better to resort certainly to the help of the expert which will help or assist you with definition, but will not make it for you. As anybody another has not the right to do or make it for you.
The expert in this case should be or the psychologist with preparation on a sexology, or the sexologist, but without urological bent.