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[netselovannyj]

To be exact the virgin: (
Clearly visible me of the reason (besides psychological) on which I cannot is simple take and meet and so the girl (all I znakomsta were virtually, t. e. In absentia): my completeness, the size of a member on STATE THAT (12 sm) and absence of job, so money.
Unique sex experience - kunnilingus. Attitudes or relations with that girl have not developed, as she in marriage left, and at me as to spite parents were ill - were the whole days of the house.
The matter is that I cannot get acquainted with girls owing to the set forth above complexes - I reciprocate, if will offer, but at girls in the majority exactly same model of behaviour, as well as at me.
I the fairly clever person, I understand all and would not began to clone similar subjects, if not comprehension of that there are people both in 30, and in 40 years which and have remained virgins. I very much am afraid to become same, besides mentally I would like to not have sex contact to the woman, but aspiration to promiscuity.
I have read through book Enikeevoj " the Man and the woman " and, by her, have already missed the stage of hypersexuality.....

Tell or Say, please:
1) whether has value or meaning;importance age of the introduction into a sexual life - t. e. Whether it is possible miss that period of hypersexuality about which there is a speech or he will come or step, when the person for the first time will borrow or occupy in sex?
2) what age is considered critical on universal and psihoseksualnym to concepts?

In general, the virgin in 23 years - it is already abnormal?

P. S. Forgive or excuse for putannost, it is simply impossible to isolate simply and so that is a problem.

[The doctor the sexologist]

Hello

Dilja Enikeeva it is not considered authority on a sexology as to a science. And if you will blindly follow everything, that starts with its or her books the result will be unpredictable.
You have not missed what period, and to begin never late.
The critical age accordingly the same does not exist.

And if you are not self-assured, you can be helped or assisted by training of confidence of. And more here that the confidence of does not depend on an anatomic structure of a body, it is psychological criterion. It is not necessary to give up itself as a bad job. Borrow or occupy in job above itself at the good psychologist.

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netselovannyj, at me the similar problem was, me too 23, only I not the virgin - was to literally pair or steam raz.-))) And now attitudes or relations povilis-)))
If objectively to think, it - is abnormal, but not in the sense that it is bad, and what not as at the majority.
It seems to me, you somehow should calm down, relax, clean or remove internally this trouble in occasion of the disadvantages. In your case, by the way, absolutely far-fetched. Many guys like not for money, and that so only 10 % of percent or interests rich would be with girls. And about 12 sm - in general you are in vain soared. If to stories to listen - so at all from 18- and above. Actually, 12 - quite widespread size also it is not necessary to be upset in this occasion at all. The size basically matters, but is exact not such to allocate or remove a leaging role and eternally to think about it. For example, you have a representation about the size of an ideal female breast, but you completely will arrange, I think both more and less.
My advice or council - for some time completely forget about girls - do not think eternally: " As though somebody to start to meet ". Communicating with girls, communicate with them, as with friends and anything more. And as you will feel, that your internal intensity slept - start to operate or work on the sly.
And, everything, problems by itself are not solved - it is necessary to operate or work. For example, to grow thin and find job - very much even it is real. For itself, and there both the confidence will appear also other.
Success!

[netselovannyj]

Thanks you huge for answers, and nevertheless 2 comments:
1) How to define or determine the "good" psychologist??? Besides I am more prodverzhen smtereotipam, rather than to suggestion...
2) the average size like across the Europe of 15-16 sm

[SHypuchy Vozhyk]

netselovannyj, it nifiga not a problem. More precisely, a problem, but psychological character. And it is therefore solved on all 100! All at you will be in porjade, the main thing believe in itself!!!

[The doctor the sexologist]

Hello

On 1 item or point. For this purpose it is necessary to talk preliminary to the psychologist about itself most. To communicate to clients of the psychologist. Voobshchem to collect it is as much as possible information about that.
On 2 item or point. Whence you have taken such "like" the sizes? (It is desirable to specify a source, instead of it is simple on the Internet). For the information or inquiry the average size of a female vagina 8-10 see For what you with a stock? Or there are other variants of application of such sizes?

[sav]

The basic obex by a normal life, in my opinion, in such cases are not problems and disadvantages, as those, and the attitude or relation to them. Stop to worry! Especially, that you can not correct. Means, it is necessary to accept and be all happy or enough itself at any rasklade.
It is necessary to realize unequivocally, that digging in yourself and analyzing the disadvantages, you do or make only worse to yourself. Stop. Throw off from itself all these ideas: " I, a metal plate, something not Brad Pitt, am not rich, but also a member not on STATE THAT "!!!
Also it is necessary to tell or say, is how much correct that nothing ventured, nothing gained. There is a problem - it or she needs to be solved. Your problem - any ways. Especially, as you, probably, itself understand, all business not in completeness, not in money and not in a member. Sometime, when you will have attitudes or relations with the good girl, you will be amazed or struck, how much or as far as you were mistaken.
And has put only in you. How preodlet pavor before active actions? A question complex or difficult, but solved. As minimu, there is a psychologist. Also it is not necessary to hesitate of the reference or manipulation to it or him;them - all people have problems. On the contrary, that you activly get rid of the problems, does or makes you better.
Voobshchem, do not sour - operate or work!
Success!

[netselovannyj]

On 2 item or point. Whence you have taken such "like" the sizes? (It is desirable to specify a source, instead of it is simple on the Internet). For the information or inquiry the average size of a female vagina 8-10 see For what you with a stock? Or there are other variants of application of such sizes?
Certainly Internet:) you and know it. But here to you a malicious question: if at the woman of 8-10 sm + 3-4 sm of "admission" on a stretching with whom at whom from 15 sm and above sleep:) And who sleeps with children or guys in a porno? And who, forgive or excuse, bottles, balls, arms-legs or arms-foots;hand-legs in a vagina pushs? Whether the vagina glubzhee became, whether it easily accepts in itself lengths, percent or interests on 100 more its or his most.

Sav, I understand, that any person has "trigger": to do or make/not to do or make. A question in how to switch this trigger.