Attrition from an onanism (help or assist please)

[Alex79]

To me of 26 years, with 14- years zanemalsja an onanism on 1-2 times a day in tichenii 12- years (nekak nemogu will get out of this habit)
From a constant onanism the face acyanotic, under eyes dark circles, irritability, weariness......
neznaju as it correctly to explain but my face is strong istoshchenno, acyanotic thin. But I not strongly thin and here the face is strong istoshchenno
Please help or assist advice or council, can eat what medicine for an attrition after dlitelnogo (12- years) an onanism
??
Can napisanoe will seem to you ridiculous but please help or assist it very important and urgently... Already in the street postaronnie people speak me find to itself the girl, or will suffice onanirovat.. More shortly as they say result on the face.

Help or Assist please

[Alex79]

The subject was transferred or carried to section " by the Psychiatrist, the psychotherapist, the psychologist "

[Inga]

Irritability and weariness in itself cannot be the reasons of a frequent onanism. I have a friend to whom it very much is pleasant, he often resorts to a similar method of sex satisfaction, even with the girl. It is pleasant to him mastrubirovat on pictures in and-not those or that about sex-sites, and he takes pleasure, when she during this moment looks at it or him. However, the boring and at it or him is not present weariness.
Probably, at you it is connected with absence of sex with the woman. What to you prevents to find to itself the girl? If you have problems in dialogue with women address to the psychologist.
By the way, if at you the thin face, does not mean, that you are exhausted. In my opinion, you were too fixed or recorded not it or this. Not stavte to itself diagnoses, ostavte it is to experts, there is a rule: even the doctor cannot treat itself.

[Dr. Sex]

" Already in the street postaronnie people speak me find to itself the girl, or will suffice onanirovat.. ". Your humour is estimated or appreciated. I shall respond " in a subject ": cannot throw - onanirujte in day, or 2-3 times in a week; it is high-grade eat, apply stimulators of type zhen- after consultation of the doctor, vitamin courses; high-grade rest and a dream are obligatory. Circles will be gone, the semen becomes more qualitative, she only will go not on a fertilization, and to a toilet bowl.

[The gnome]

Greetings. I understand you. Even too x.. To me too 26, too it is somehow imperceptible by nonsense (x nonsenses) has sat down on this employment or occupation, all over again it is simple so, then hanging in the Internet. Has tried to find the decision of a problem at this forum, it has not turned out, x to x. depressions have been diagnosed, since September I sit on x. However, result I do not observe. More correctly, the result, probably, is, but he does not satisfy me:)
Signs (consequences, name as x) all it or this are - constant weariness (basically a brain, I I feel pressure inside of a head literally in some hours after a dream), impossibility to relax, concentrate, the same circles under eyes, hair drop out obviously abnormal rates..
Plus to physical malfunctions constantly is strained with ideas about " aimlessly x ", accuse itself of squandering seed or spermatic fund. It seems, result of an onanism is as absence of ambitions, practically ability to creative activity completely was gone.. Naturally, not direct consequence or investigation of a fixing or lingering masturbation, probably simply brain " works as all this x ", spending all time on samounichizhajushchie ideas, but I simply do not know, how of it or this to get rid. All can if here povykladyvat, it becomes easier?
As, very much strains full absence of sex desire. Despite of an abundance of opportunities, presence of girls x close dialogue, x and x in x x, I remain is practically indifferent both to laskam, and to shows.... It very much frightens, x to believe, that all will manage, but certificates to it or this is not observed..
I shall set the same question, as the author of a subject - how to be and shto to do or make.
Give can x we shall talk?

[Not registered]

Fine.
At me the same problem. About myself I can respond me there is no girl. From it or this and all problems. To me of 25 years. There is no dialogue with the girl. From it or this and circles under glazzami, are I do not want (I eat once a day and it that activly I move all the day). Depression, annoyance. At me the sex desire arises sometimes on 4-5 times on day, and I remove or I take out a strain (I am engaged in it or this). Once a day it is exact. Has already sat down on it. And ridiculously and sadly. A pancake.

[Dr. Sex]

Guys, do not perceive an onanism as illness or disease or predilection. It is one of ACCESSIBLE mechanisms of satisfaction of HEALTHY needs or requirements of an organism. But the availability he weakens or easies an instinct of search of the "alive" partner, up to a following attack libido. Semjaizvjarzhenie for a brain it is a signal of successfully spent certificate or act let even imitating, replacing sexual. Circles under eyes, intensity, weariness, abaissement of hair are not connected with an onanism. Otherwise the men having constant sex with the woman would fill clinics, in fact for them not only ruchonka works;-) If sex attitudes or relations with the woman do not involve, and exclusively the onanism, is better to address to the qualified expert internally. In the rest - uncertainty in prevents to get or start devshku, and needs or requirements are, the personal conflict in itself since the biological program of duplication is not carried out begins. All it is wound, and the more weakly the person, the real depression more quickly begins, self-digging goes deep.. I shall not continue. The decision is - self-development, self-education, a direction of energy on search of the girl. If decrease of frequency of employment or occupations by an onanism important - seryoznye playing sports. You can describe the signs each other, to you it will be easier than that there are colleagues by "misfortune", but the prospect budorazhushchej a sex life will appear only when you firmly solve for yourselves - everything, following time IT will be with the girl irrespective of as IT will occur or happen, let even it will be ITS or her arm or hand. And the brain will start to work differently, on prospect.
Successes!

[The gnome]

All this correctly and clearly, is natural restoration x attitudes or relations with all world will help or assist but what to do or make when problems to find the girl, to live with the girl, to communicate with the girl, no less than with many other things people, x problems are not present! All seems to all my friends quite normal and usual, but at me no desire (sex, it is simple aspirations to something, except for finding this aspiration) arises! Unique who understands that something not so - the girl wondering, why all people around x it or her x, and the unique person involving it or her is freezed, x in x x x. I motivate the status with depression and tablets, but for myself this excuse or help not kanaet.
I try to struggle, I am was insolent or keep by weeks, then, having started missing at the monitor, I stick porn and I lower, abusing myself last words..
Illness or Disease not an onanism, and that I do or make that with the bashkoj. But how of it or this to get rid??

[Dr. Sex]

If forces to understand itself does not suffice, probably, the psychotherapist will help or assist.

[The gnome]

Again twenty-five.. I in fact have written, that x to x which has found out depression and treats it or her velbutrinom (bupropionom). Can, even most likely, x this not first class, simply doctor from a municipal hospital to which I was directed by the therapist. But medical x payment to professionals does not provide, and at me $100-200 for visit is not present..
Really there is nobody who have got rid it or these, ready will share experience and to set a pancake right??
The doctor, you in fact the doctor? Tell or say something efficient, concrete.
Please!

[Inga]

I spoke, a subject not here a place, here the reason of a bad status - dipressija, instead of mastrubatsija!

[Inga]

Really there is nobody who have got rid it or these, ready will share experience and to set a pancake right??
The doctor, you in fact the doctor? Tell or say something efficient, concrete.
Please!

For everyone - the, for treatment dipressy is not present uniform such universal advice or council from pair offers, on treatment years can leave, and there are that all life live with a neurosis (or still something) even at a psychotherapy.
Eslib all so was simple, then psychologists would not be at all!
Advice or Council such: earn money and go to the good expert, other way is not present.

[Dr. Sex]

I very much would want, that pair offers would help or assist to decide or solve or begin or start to solve your problem. A key status - depression. If really to replace a situation, make it, for a while. Stir up the life, without any purposes and plans, simply bring in it or her something new, it will be unimportant what result. Know, depression leaves for pair hours, if it not a sign seryoznogo diseases. neponimaju when depression treat tablets - sports, an active life, addictings, a hobby - the best medicines. There is no stimulus? Excuse, without effort and not there and not here. I do not know, whether you will understand, the Gnome that I now shall write, now or later... Release or let off itself.. It is not necessary to wait from itself for changes, it is not necessary zamorachivatsja above an onanism, it is not necessary to think of the girl whom everyone want... Do or make, that it would be desirable, it is tasty or delicious eat, change a situation, indulge itself... Accept itself such, in fact now it is necessary to grope a point from which process of convalescence will begin.

[konstantinv]

I here shall not understand Inga he/she is the doctor or is simple so worries? What means anybody is not present got rid from it or this? I so think, at least I hope impotents looks not much.

[Gizmo]

all this correctly and clearly, is natural restoration x attitudes or relations with all world will help or assist but what to do or make when problems to find the girl, to live with the girl, to communicate with the girl, no less than with many other things people, x problems are not present! All seems to all my friends quite normal and usual, but at me no desire (sex, it is simple aspirations to something, except for finding this aspiration) arises! Unique who understands that something not so - the girl wondering, why all people around x it or her x, and the unique person involving it or her is freezed, x in x x x. I motivate the status with depression and tablets, but for myself this excuse or help not kanaet.
I try to struggle, I am was insolent or keep by weeks, then, having started missing at the monitor, I stick porn and I lower, abusing myself last words..
Illness or Disease not an onanism, and that I do or make that with the bashkoj. But how of it or this to get rid??
Bratok, words Dr. Sex that an onanism - not illness or disease, nonsense. It is typical narkozavisimost. And it is necessary to get rid of it or her, differently all life you will be tired and beschustvennym the blockhead. Here the question in overcoming itself, as is actually the main parameter of the present of the man. Also do not believe, that a masturbation - an excellent or a different discharge. Those who has captivated the Internet this propagation crafty hold back, that the onanism causes dependence and destroys power of the person. Sex with the woman these by-effects does not possess.

Pair advice or councils that who wishes to get out of a self-destructive habit. The most important - to overcome the first temptation prikosnusja to a member. As soon as has felt, that it wanted to be arranged more conveniently and, as they say, " to take business in the arms or hand ", make 10 knee-bends, leave from the house, pass or take place, in general, lay down itself in conditions when the onanism is physically impossible. You at once will see, that it became easier. After that the main thing to not triumph a victory and to act in a similar way with each attack of desire. In due course, somewhere in week of continence, sex desires will start to pass from area of imaginations to real women. It also will be the certificate of the beginning of a recovery. In passing predalagaju regular playing sports. But it is not enough of it or this - an onanism illness or disease not physical, but spiritual. Therefore I suggest to find to myself a hobby on soul or douche. To that is helped or assisted by books that church that a burning out on a tree) in any case to get rid from drochki employment or occupation where you can continuously improve the results will help or assist - suit and otzhimanija from a floor, and reading of 100 pages in day. Or both that, and another.
Now about those who yet has not found the girl. Such it is very difficult to be kept from a masturbation who from them all the same has managed to be pulled out or escape from a vicious circle, can be proud of itself - such people it is possible to name men. And here to guys more weakly will I advise to expel an onanism job. Do not idle - constantly be engaged in any business. Also search for second half)

[sakura]

to me of 26 years, with 14- years zanemalsja an onanism on 1-2 times a day in tichenii 12- years (nekak nemogu will get out of this habit)
From a constant onanism the face acyanotic, under eyes dark circles, irritability, weariness......
neznaju as it correctly to explain but my face is strong istoshchenno, acyanotic thin. But I not strongly thin and here the face is strong istoshchenno
Please help or assist advice or council, can eat what medicine for an attrition after dlitelnogo (12- years) an onanism
??
Can napisanoe will seem to you ridiculous but please help or assist it very important and urgently... Already in the street postaronnie people speak me find to itself the girl, or will suffice onanirovat.. More shortly as they say result on the face.

Help or Assist please

You know, in my opinion, I somewhere read about the acyanotic face and circles under eyes from an onanism... Zdnaesh where? It was in the book on a sexology of years so 80... (in the same place it was spoken that parents fastened to little boys of the handle a soft tissue for the night that they did not touch or tamper with the genitals) Now I never I vidila anywhere that now spoke, that the onanism leaves traces on the face. On the contrary, it some kind of emotional both a physical discharge. And circles under eyes is really consequence or investigation of stress or other reasons. Certainly, I think, there is a problem: you as speak, "have sat down" on grandfather Onanija, but it already other problem which in any way has been not connected with yours vnitrennim by a status and external displays of this status.

[Avov]

Inga they can be helped or assisted a current by you, it because of otsutstvie women, itself know, the wife when for 10 days to mum left too in days of 5 beginnings on 1-3 times a day and it would be desirable sevremja a female body, and to terminate was a little, and as the wife has come that and all has ended.

[The philosopher]

It is just necessary to find itself. Is better to make it with the little man of an opposite floor. Even if girls do not raise or excite you, for certain there are such, which to you roads for any qualities, for kindness, honesty and so on. pogvoori with them. Do not hesitate of friendly embraces, be not afraid to glance to the girl in eyes. Learn or teach what-string verse eventually and prochti it or him.

And on absolutely hudorj the extremity or end, it is possible to remove or take off the girl at what for 150-200 $ at an o'clock she to you all that you want will make))

[bmon]

Ya pishu eto ne tolko tebe Alex79, a i vsem kto stradaet ot etogo, imeyu vvidu masturbaciyu. Ne podumayte ludi chto ya kakoy-to religiozniy fanatik. Raskaju vse po poriadku. Ot rojdeniya mi vse imeem ne tolko bescenniy dar jizni, no i devstvennost. Odnajdi eshe kogda uchilsia v shkole ya poproboval eto zaniatie i tak nemu pristrastilsia chto eshe do sih por ne poluchaetsia brosit, potom u menia bila devushka (seichas net u uje nikogda ne budet) U menia uje progress v brosanii etoy prokliatoy privichki inogda vozderjivayus bolee mesiatsa i na etom ne ostanovlus. V 20 let ya pokaylsia pered Gospodom, i tverdo reshil brosit etot greh (da, da-greh. u nego mnogo nazvaniy: malakiya, rukobludie i t.d.) Mnogie vrachi odobriayut eto zanitie, no prislushaites k golosu svoey sovesti i ona vam podskajet chto eto postidniy, bludniy greh ot kotorogo nado izbavitsia. Seichas skaju pochemu u menia bolshe nikogda ne budet devushki,-potomu chto ya reshil, chto kak tolko s Bojiey pomoshiyu izbavlus ot etogo "narkoticheskogo" greha rukobludia, to poidu v monastir i budu do samoy smerti slavit Boga za to chto osvobodil menia ot etogo diavolskogo rabstva. Vsem kto prochitaet eto sovetuyu esli vi eshe ne lishilis svoey devstvennosti i toje hotite posviatit svoyu jizn Bogu-ne zanimaytes masturbaciey, potom brosit ujasno trudno, luchshe pereterpite i chtobi bilo legche-molites, naprimer Prepodobnoy Marii Egipetskoy (pochitayte jitie etoy sviatoy, ochen interesnoe!) Esli vi hotite jit v miru, to vstupayte v zakonniy brak i obiazatelno povenchaytes, tak na vas ne budet greha bluda i lishaetes devstvennosti nichego ne boyas, rojdat detey v zakonnom brake ne greh, naprotiv Sam Gospod nash Iisus Hristos blagoslovil brak Svoim prisutstviem na svadbe v Kane Galileyskoy (pochitayte Evangelie, v Biblii vse est, tolko chitayte Bibliyu Sinodalnogo perevoda, ne berite ee u Svideteley Iegovi i prochih sektantov) Istinnaya vera tolko pravoslavnaya i eto podtverjdaet ejegodnoe shojdenie Blagodatnogo ognia v Ierusalime nad Grobom Gospodnim, i po molitvam iskluchitelno pravoslavnogo Patriarha, eshe ni odin lider drugoy hristianskoy konfessii za mnogie veka tak i ne smog vimolit etot Sviatoy Ogon, kotoriy pervie minuti gorit no sovershenno ne objigaet, a takje istinnost pravoslaviya dokazivaet netlenie moshey pravoslavnih sviatih (oni ne gniyut posle smerti i nikto ih ne balzamiruet dlia etogo) Tak chto ne slushayte vrachey (ya ne imyu vvidu vseh, a tolko teh vrachey), kotorie govoriat chto masturbaciya ne vredna, chto vse klasno. Zapomnite-eto greh, v nem nujno pokayatsia i molit Boga o pomoshi, sami mi etu gadost ne brosim, no chto nevozmojno cheloloveku vozmojno Bogu, na svoem opite znayu i veriu chto vskore ya smogu proderjatsia (bez etogo) s Ego pomoshiyu ne tolko mesiats no i 3 mes, i polgoda, i tak vse reje poka polnostiyu ne broshu. Ne otchaivaites i ne sdavaytes, a pobolshe molites i sobludayte post. Esli komu interssno to mne skoro budet 22. Nadeyus k 23 ya polnostyu budu svoboden.

[The girl 18]

It is so much girls suffering and you guys in nonsense is engaged think

[The anonym __]

Delirium of all this. The straight line korelljatsii certainly is not present, but while I was engaged in an onanism (I late virginity have lost), there was a constant creative activity, in a life all was ok, etc. And then girls have gone or send, and has gradually begun - bars clubs of a disco, to smoke the beginnings, to drink, eat which as, to program for itself and for dop. Money after job (to create) has ceased, health to hell became - otdyshka, the stomach hurts, a head often... Has now refused in general any sex activity, for 8 months - the life is adjusted, though for the present has not left even on a former level =)

[nerzh]

Correctly speak, guys, itself in an onanism I am engaged, though the girl is (does not suffice) and it is a sediment-weariness excruciates. In general, the problem is not so much in physical harm, and more in psychological. Energy leaves, mental, it and without doctors clearly. But at me such troubles happened in a life-though in a loop climb, now all business in strength of mind. As well topers-those or -that who -cure, the others die. Ways different can be from an onanism, but first of all it is necessary to cease to indulge itself, essentially this question to solve, in a head, and to live to begin not for the sake of fleeting addictings, and for the sake of serious things (for everyone the) and advantage or benefit to associates. About bows to beat and to that as it is pleasant, I am better on isolation ward I shall come, the person should be Strong.

[Jury.]

I shall add also the 5 copecks. Since the early childhood (precisely also I do not remember when, from 7-10 years) has started to be engaged in an onanism. Consequences: bad vision, a curve pennis, a weak erection, spots on the face and on a body, circles under eyes, weariness. And here now 23 - I continue. But I have considerably reduced frequency of employment or occupations. Sometimes the break reached 4-6 months. I recognize, what is it the present or true narcotic and to wean from it or him very hardly, BUT it is possible. And NARCOMANIACS CURE. It is necessary TO STRUGGLE and apply all possible or probable ways of struggle. Now I shall share the operating time, perhaps they will help or assist you. First of all it is necessary to learn to respect, like myself and prinemat such what we are. In fact we creations Bozhie and we (our brains, our body) are worthy love and respect. First of all itself. It is not necessary to reproach, hate itself after the next certificate or act of an onanism. It is necessary to recognize the time or temporary lesion, to draw conclusions (how better further to operate or work as it can be prevented) and to struggle, struggle... I for example, have understood, that it is better to not remain alone with a computer, and in target it is better in general than it or him to not include, spend time with friends (picnic, small river) to go in for sports. In general, I believe, that in all is Bozhie a foresight and everything, that all is not done or made at will Bozhiej. (I to it or this have come through the experience, very longly itself doubted) Perhaps, this test which, we having overcome, shall temper the character, the spirit. We should overcome this illness... This dependence. We shall overcome it or her. We the present or true muzhiks!!! We will have a remarkable family: the clear head, a beauty the wife and remarkable healthy detki. Here it our future, it completely depends on us, we create it or him right now, it depends on this minute, second. We should not forget about it or this, we should struggle and us all to turn out. And if delicacies have given in again to rise from knees and to struggle. Strong not the one who never falls, and having fallen, rises and continues to go. Success All of us and yes will be helped or assisted Us by the God.

[Berta]

By the way, I wish to add too. I too on it "have sat down". Though also the girl.: (
The beginnings of years with 4.
To find to itself now someone for sex it is few opportunity. In attitudes or relations with the person whom I like and strongly I depend. Intimate relations at us are not present. Leave from it or him at present I can not.
Voobshchem, I am rescueed or saved;salvaged by a daily discharge. Very sadly. As consequences or investigations, bad memory, a zero of the concentration, any motivation.
And without it or this is even worse. I become malicious as features, and all irritates.
The circle becomes isolated.

[The doctor the sexologist]

By the way, I wish to add too. I too on it "have sat down". Though also the girl.: (
The beginnings of years with 4.
To find to itself now someone for sex it is few opportunity. In attitudes or relations with the person whom I like and strongly I depend. Intimate relations at us are not present. Leave from it or him at present I can not.
Voobshchem, I am rescueed or saved;salvaged by a daily discharge. Very sadly. As consequences or investigations, bad memory, a zero of the concentration, any motivation.
And without it or this is even worse. I become malicious as features, and all irritates.
The circle becomes isolated.
Hello Berta

As consequences or investigations, bad memory, a zero of the concentration, any motivation.

If consequence or investigation about which you speak in your opinion a consequence of a masturbation I can assure you, what is it not so. And it already for a long time is proved by a modern science.

And that at you good sexuality about what speaks your desire of a daily discharge it is very remarkable.
The reason in an event at you it that you do not realize or realize, cannot realize the sexuality as you would like more correctly.
I think, that if you visit or attend the doctor-sexologist I think, you can look at an event on other.