The desire to borrow or occupy in sex was gone

[Bagira]

Help or Assist, please!!! At me such : sorts or labors (in 2004) at me the sex desire was gone. Absolutely! To Me are not pleasant caress of the husband (though I very much like it or him), even ideas on sex cause any hostility. To a word tell or say-it the second labors also was leaked by them quickly and practically painlessly (in comparison with the first) .moj the husband of sex wants on a regular basis (every day), and as a result receives 1-2 in a month, and even less often, thus I think only that "it" would terminate more quickly. He speaks me, that I could and pay more often to him attention, that he not "iron", etc. But I cannot cleanly morally! I would not want that my hostility to sex has turned to disgust for the husband! I wish to adjust all but as-not I have concepts. I wish to return that pleasure from sex which kogdo received. HELP or ASSIST!!!

[The doctor the sexologist]

Hello Bagira

To return, probably, especially you have a desire to correct a situation. But for this purpose it is necessary to know, for what reasons has arisen the given phenomenon. To establish or install them it is possible in conversation with you. Therefore as it is necessary to collect about you enough plenty of the information.

[Bagira]

To me 26 years, are my second marriage (civil, the first was lawful), there are 2 children. I liked sex always and more often itself insisted on itself (caress, a petting, joint viewing of films with elements of a sensuality and a porno) but as soon as I have crossed a threshold of the house after an extract from a maternity home (with the second kid) and the husband has reminded of how he has become bored or has missed for these or it 9 months, me as bud a current has pulled, I have understood, that nothing would be desirable me and about sex and speech cannot be! Also that the most interesting, so it that does not want sex my organism! I chesno tried "to suppress" this unwillingness, but left only worse. Touches of the husband, its or his hints that would be time to think eventually and about itself became unpleasant to me. I fine understand it or him, but with myself anything I can not do or make. This consequence or investigation of any latent trauma during sorts or labors can? Though I have transferred or carried them more than well. I already know nothing and I can not understand, it would be desirable, that you would help or assist me. Thanks.

[The doctor the sexologist]

Hello Bagira

As a rule the majority of women after sorts or labors has a similar situation and on that is the biological reasons.
The reason on which at you on present or true time such situation is not clear to me yet. Therefore as she consists of very many components it and the attitude or relation to the body after sorts or labors, possible or probable change of object of love, namely children, the attitude or relation of the husband to children, its or his help to you in education of children and more set of the reasons.
Help or Assist I can only that I shall recommend to you to address to the psychotherapist (which it is prepared in the field of a sexology) or the doctor-sexologist.
For comprehension and comprehension of an event you, time is necessary and such is possible or probable at teamwork with the specified doctors.
And if your desire will not collide or face with an iceberg of resistance the success in achievement of the purpose to you is guaranteed.

[LisenOK]

Hello!
At me after sorts or labors (April 2006) the same situation. I do not want the liked husband, all is opposite to me, but.... It would be desirable satisfaction on the party or side. And it is constant. With 6- in years to me it is removed or is taken off;dream dreams where there is a unknown person the man (more correctly a body, I did not see the face never) both I and me with it or him it is simply delightful. Now to me 21 and dreams it is removed or is taken off;dream till now, but already with real the man (there was couple of years back passion to one person) .pomogite please! I do not wish to fool around, I like it or him, but I can not be engaged with it or him love. Though I enough often have such desire and as reaches business or affairs - I feel nothing also to me simply oppositely. We talked to the husband he all knows, but now I have again started to play beds (to represent that to me well), I know that so it is impossible, but on another I can not. Painfully to look at the husband when he blames itself(himself) for an event. Help or assist, please! Thanks.

[The doctor the sexologist]

Hello LisenOK

I do not know all spectrum of the reasons of an event.
But I can offer here such variant.
That if you with the spouse will play in game in which you will be, strangers the friend for the friend, add to it or this changing clothes and more sex in a unfamiliar place.
Probably, such will help or assist to realize imaginations and to raise or increase interest to each other.