Oksana
10.08.2004, 10:30
Hello! My name is Oksana. I shall be very grateful to you for the help. Understand, at me some questions with which it is simple not to itself have accumulated to drive. And on a mail not too J. It would be desirable to understand everything but if will respond even to a couple - huge human thanks.
The first - and the most important question (it can, and not on your speciality, but I shall risk to ask): how to be defined or determined FOR ITSELF, whether it is necessary to conduct a sexual life? How to win itself pavor to offend refusal of the liked guy? I and on pervyj-that have gone with pity (I know, it was what is it silly, but, to surprise, I have not regretted). Now here we live on a regular basis, to recede kak-that awkwardly, but doubts excruciate constantly. WHAT TO DO or MAKE?
Know, I have been literally assured earlier, that two condoms protect better. However recently vyskrebla the information, povergshuju me in a bewilderment and pavor. The doctor approved or confirmed, that durability of condoms adjoining among themselves is LESS iz-for friction. Now I do not know, to whom to listen. poraskinuv poor or scanty umishkom, I have agreed with this version, but your opinion is very valuable to me.
What else it is possible to use contraceptives (to me soon 15, now only on "Djurekse" and Patentekse-the Oval - can, it is not enough elastics and candles? But to drink contraceptives on hormones without purpose or appointment of the doctor, to insert any terrible spirals and to glue unchecked adhesive plasters I am afraid or rather afraid. Whether it is possible "to write out" independently to itself "Logest"? Care will not damage or injure;hurt)?
And psychologically very much seryoznaja the problem excruciates me here on what question. My guy (at us a difference 3 years) became the man with me as I already spoke, I did not thirst for it or this at such age. But also, as you could suspect, remain thrown I was not afraid, no. That me then moved - I can not respond myself till now. pochemu-that I felt any duty, whether that was a pity to me it or him, itself I do not know why (he in fact so would like, spermotoksikoz and t. Item). And so 4 months and 10 days, more than 20 times proceed. I feel due to him. So it is silly, but the naked truth. This belief of Seems, that I consider or count myself unworthy the guy and ridiculous and nelepo-insignificant on its or his background. I wish something to change. But what?
P. S.: forgive or excuse. I have filled up you with different questions, moreover confused and in disorder But sex and mentality of the person are indissolubly connected (is direct on Freud), and to state separately to different experts - useless expenditure of the and their time, which I at you and so has taken away.
I very much hope for the answer and the help. I wait.
Oksana.
The first - and the most important question (it can, and not on your speciality, but I shall risk to ask): how to be defined or determined FOR ITSELF, whether it is necessary to conduct a sexual life? How to win itself pavor to offend refusal of the liked guy? I and on pervyj-that have gone with pity (I know, it was what is it silly, but, to surprise, I have not regretted). Now here we live on a regular basis, to recede kak-that awkwardly, but doubts excruciate constantly. WHAT TO DO or MAKE?
Know, I have been literally assured earlier, that two condoms protect better. However recently vyskrebla the information, povergshuju me in a bewilderment and pavor. The doctor approved or confirmed, that durability of condoms adjoining among themselves is LESS iz-for friction. Now I do not know, to whom to listen. poraskinuv poor or scanty umishkom, I have agreed with this version, but your opinion is very valuable to me.
What else it is possible to use contraceptives (to me soon 15, now only on "Djurekse" and Patentekse-the Oval - can, it is not enough elastics and candles? But to drink contraceptives on hormones without purpose or appointment of the doctor, to insert any terrible spirals and to glue unchecked adhesive plasters I am afraid or rather afraid. Whether it is possible "to write out" independently to itself "Logest"? Care will not damage or injure;hurt)?
And psychologically very much seryoznaja the problem excruciates me here on what question. My guy (at us a difference 3 years) became the man with me as I already spoke, I did not thirst for it or this at such age. But also, as you could suspect, remain thrown I was not afraid, no. That me then moved - I can not respond myself till now. pochemu-that I felt any duty, whether that was a pity to me it or him, itself I do not know why (he in fact so would like, spermotoksikoz and t. Item). And so 4 months and 10 days, more than 20 times proceed. I feel due to him. So it is silly, but the naked truth. This belief of Seems, that I consider or count myself unworthy the guy and ridiculous and nelepo-insignificant on its or his background. I wish something to change. But what?
P. S.: forgive or excuse. I have filled up you with different questions, moreover confused and in disorder But sex and mentality of the person are indissolubly connected (is direct on Freud), and to state separately to different experts - useless expenditure of the and their time, which I at you and so has taken away.
I very much hope for the answer and the help. I wait.
Oksana.