The dear doctor! My girl does not test an orgasm klitorialnogo, in...

[Igor]

The dear doctor! My girl does not test an orgasm neither klitorialnogo, nor vaginalnogo, any. She is not engaged in a masturbation and never was engaged. A sexual life I conduct two years, the unique partner which at it or her ever was. Preliminary laskam we pay the big attention. Physiologically to her to like to be engaged in sex, but she concerns to it or him;them as to something dirty, low and sinful. Very much we require your help, to that we very strongly each other like, and this problem does not go to our attitudes or relations on advantage or benefit. To receive personal consultation of the expert we have no an opportunity. Thankful in advance.

[Isaev D.D.]

Dear Igor! Certainly, one of factors interfering achievement of an orgasm at your girl is the uncooperative altitude to sex. But it is compelled or forced to warn, that verbal your belief or any girlfriend will have not enough success. Probably, the source of the similar attitude or relation originates in its or her past and here more thin and laborious job of the sexologist-psychotherapist is required, and your efforts should be directed on development of its or her general or common sensuality. It means, that all attention to you should be concentrated not to the sexual certificate or act, and all over again on vnegenitalnyh laskah partnershi which should know, that your actions not aspiration to affinity (!), and expression of your love and tenderness is simple. This obligatory condition will help or assist her to not think about forthcoming " dirty sex ", and completely to relax and plunge into pleasant sensations. (it would be desirable to forget for some time about sex affinity and to start to form sex attitudes or relations as though anew.) And your problem or task to develop its or her erogenic zones and ability to plunge into sensual sensations that the level of exaltation gradually amplified, skill to join in erotic experiences. That the positive and erotic attitude or relation to a situation was simultaneously formed, it is desirable, that after that the girl made something similar with you, trying arms or hand, labiums to express the feelings, the attitude or relation to you. It will promote also to its or her greater involvement into a situation and putting off or taking out of psychological barriers. No speeding up of development of a situation should be of you. She should define or determine and show you as far she is ready to go this time. Of you there should be a huge patience, tenderness and love! All in your arms or hand! At correct actions progress it will be obligatory!