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Natalia
05.07.2004, 11:59
Good afternoon! In my family there was an explosive situation because of sex. The husband at me very temperamental comrade, as he said sex is necessary to him every day. And I last years cannot give it or this, though the first some years after wedding I too had no objection to be engaged in it or this though every day. Sex for me not the most important, and now and for a long time as he why that does not bring so much pleasures as earlier. Certainly, the years lived together have no to rough feelings. But zhit-that is necessary further. Attempts to descend or go kuda-nibud to vanish, etc. in what do not result or bring, t. To. There is it at the best once a month, yes I so believe these excesses, to him are deeply indifferent. Erotic massage to him has occurred to make only once for 10 years. He and that in sex does not like preludes. Does or makes it as though unwillingly, that too does not throw me into ecstasies. Its or His dreamboat that it was not necessary "to get" or start" me, whether it see superfluous 15 minutes, and he should quickly to these or it;this work and lay down to sleep.
And recently my husband began to take a great interest or be fond porno-in photos. He basically and before them liked, and in the last some months I almost daily see its or his sitting at a computer and examining these photos with all consequences following from it or this. It basically and earlier not so was pleasant to me, but I was silent - time does not suffice him, it is necessary kak-to leave that this position. And now on me it operates or works as a red cloth on the bull. Well to that it is pleasant - wake up, and he already at a computer, or only have worked sex - he again there runs and at job, as he said, at leisure he hangs in pornosajtah. Has tried to talk - you are guilty, do not give me every day, I only and am rescueed or saved;salvaged by it or this, to all my friends to the wife give even on two times per day, and you eternally sick, in fact it you do not want, and I want every day, something means with me that's all right, and with you not so, descend or go to the sexopathologist. And thus he does not do or make less decent attempts any more to rapproachement unless offers each time etak "elegantly" - give I am fucked also should at once somlet, be got or started and satisfy it or him. Whether he see likes eyes, therefore it is necessary to like each other at light, I understand it. And, that women like ears, it not its or his problems, he of beautiful words to speak is not able and is not going to, therefore that I should include or switch on, that too though something to like, he does not know. I, speak money I earn also you I feed, and you at home sit, therefore should move apart legs or foots when I shall want it or this. And after each such attempt to solve this problem to talk about her, there is a disgusting deposit on soul or douche, even greater discontent with a situation and in particular the husband. Explain to me, please, that occurs or happens to it or him? Also what to me to do or make?
Thanks. Natalia.

NN
05.07.2004, 15:14
And you it is valid from it or him depend in the material plan?
It is necessary kak-to convince that it or him to consider your interests. Can, together talk to the psychologist. Or to try to find the person to which he trusts and to ask to mediate. Though the subject delicate, whether will be such entrusted person?
And you spoke him about all about it or this?
I here that have thought - try to write to him the letter, on i-to a mail, time he at you such advanced where all this would be reflected.
Sometimes in conversation it is impossible to tell or say that would leave in a monologue. Try to explain to him, that you not a saleswoman in shop where the client is always right, and the alive person, that sex for the woman often is based or founded;established on trust to the partner. And when she to you all over again tychet that you at his expense live and then there and then insists on affinity, at you the blocking mechanism joins...
In general, such view...

And at last a joke:
Come the man of years 70 to the doctor ui speaks:
- The doctor, at me a problem, I cannot already with women!
The doctor:
- Well, at your age it is normal, that will make, natural process! Why you it so ebspokoit?
- And here at me the neighbour to him 75 so he speaks, that at it or him constantly twenty years' mistresses! You can give what advice or council to me?
The doctor:
- And you speak...

Whether it is not enough that there friends speak him.... Men ochchchen like to invent about the achievements in bed, especially before other muzhiks.

Peter
06.07.2004, 07:51
Know that Natalia, fairy tales about that that sex is not necessary to you leave for the husband... I had a wife, too I so was spoken and from a disadvantage of this or it I too took a great interest or was fond in a porno and especially internet-a porno... But she has then come.... I to cool down was not in time. .pros osn has forgotten.. Whether and my wife by the way sechas lives with my friend he see to her for a long time he liked, aha, on old friendship as conscience excruciates it or him, tells to me, that she to passage does not give him without sex not only to sleep not lozhatsja while on a summer residence will reach to him it is necessary to stop two times.. The morals is those - each person has the polovinka, search for it or her, and to the husband advise

nataha
06.07.2004, 15:52
Peter of the rights to Me your cares And I of the cannot neither under myself, nor on myself

Olga
08.07.2004, 07:33
Here to me so! The grass is green on the other side of the fence

Lena
09.07.2004, 12:30
Natalia! At me very similar situation. The husband with me not love is engaged, and the stress removes or takes out thus. Probably in sex we any more do not satisfy each other, and in fact not for a long time there was such passion, the clothes the friend on the friend was torn from not with patiences. Where all disappeared? Tried reanimirovat-it is impossible. And in the rest (except for bed) at us all is excellent or different. He the good, careful husband, the excellent or different father. What to do or make? I do not wish to break family, its or his children like, and I till now like. But it would be desirable high-grade sex!!!

Toshka poplavnyj
10.07.2004, 04:40
Lena, reanimation here is powerless: (Natalia, everything described by you, better also you will not think up how to tell to the husband and to go vsmete on reception to the doctor. Probably, for that also there are vrachi-sexologists to help or assist such pairs or steams, they is thin catch where "has torn", what to give psihologicheskue an orientation for high-grade and qualitative sex at this or that pair. Success!