People, here such business, I with the girl meet a year, the truth we study...

[Inokenty]

People, here such business, I with the girl meet a year, the truth we study in different cities, but all the same we meet rather frequently, and like would understand, that we can live so; I to her do not change, and is clear, that at an occurring I would like " to remove or take off a strain ", and here she has arrived, and diligently avoids affinity, at last under my pressure she has admitted, that does not receive from affinity any satisfaction - neither with me, nor with those who was up to me, she is raised or excited, but then all passes or takes place and on soul or douche otsaetsja feeling of unjustified hopes, and "ispolzavannosti". With me to speak on this subject refuses, But as I have understood it any psychological barrier, at it or her it is strong " first time is not has gone right " and now there was a wound in soul or douche... What to me to do or make? I very much like it or her, but at all this I understand, that high-grade attitudes or relations without sex to not construct, as we often shall leave for rather long time...

[Nero]

Be with her gentle and tender.. Look or see with her pornuhu... In general make so that she has relaxed and has forgotten all old... Its or her problem in a head... Be patient and at you all will turn out..:)

[Shmakov]

Only patience - here the unique prescription. If she to you is important, you should support or maintain it or her and to not be persevering

[Nikolay]

More often come to see it or her. It is time as that more strongly to approach. Understand, that for feeling "ispolzovannosti" if itself has said this word - your business or affairs in conditions of remoteness from each other are rather bad.

[Oleg]

In the first stop to give her hope! And in the second use to her imperceptibly (in a dream for example):)))

[Thorn (not the doctor)]

Inokenty, replace the girlfriend. Your today's attitudes or relations too astable - you DO NOT LIVE together, and simply meet. In such conditions even at the normal girl an estimation of similar attitudes or relations - " perespali-have run up ", it neseryozno. The new girl whence it can be necessary, but TO SEE you it or her should every day. And night is better also.:) success!

[Isaev D.D.]

Dear Inokenty! In such cases it is required to the girl of much more tenderness, caress and attention. It is necessary to reconcile to its or her aversion of the sexual certificate or act (for any time) to switch all attention to it or her and to try to achieve, that she received the maximal exaltation and has reached or achieved an orgasm during lask. The sexual certificate or act for it or her becomes desired only later when the satisfaction will cease to be unilateral!

[Inokenty]

And if she avoids lask?

[mc Lizard]

Do not press on it or her.