At me a problem - fast semeizverzhenie. Advise something.... [Архив]

Isaev D.D.

27.06.2004, 20:46

Dear Vlad! You have rather avariciously shined or covered a problem Can, too seldom there are contacts? Or you "complex" and excessively worry during an intimal occurring? And what in your comprehension means "fast"?
1) there Is a local anesthesia (decrease of sensitivity) for what the most different ointments can be used, including on sale in intim-shops. For this purpose, in particular, it can be used mestno 10 % lidokainovaja ointment in the form of an aerosol or a spray which is put or rendered on a head of a penis before affinity. However it only "kills" sensations as at anesthesia of a tooth ability to feel taste of meal is lost.
2) Besides there are the medicines reducing excitability of the centers of an ejaculation in a brain. From medicines, for example, fluoksetin (portal) reduces excitability orgasticheskogo the center and offensive or approach of an ejaculation brakes
3) Besides skill to operate or control offensive or approach orgasticheskoj discharges on forces to any to the man. To learn it or this it is possible through performance of the certain exercises. The best quality monitoring of an ejaculation is the technique developed by the American sexologists Masters and Johnson. The technique learns or teaches to distinguish or recognize the sensations up to offensive or approach " points of irreversibility ", that is the moment when the man it is not so capable to supervise itself and cannot be kept from an orgasm. If during this moment to stop any sex stimulation sex exaltation falls down a little, and the man can make love again until again will not reach or achieve the "critical" moment. Having reached or achieved this point, the man can stop again, and then again continue the sexual certificate or act. Thus, employment or occupation by love can be stretched or dragged out for that term which is necessary for satisfaction partnershi. The method demands patience and practice, he will start to work during that instant when the man will learn to distinguish or recognize the sensations at sex exaltation. When at you automatism will be developed or produced, necessity for the similar control will disappear.
Prior to the beginning of performance of trainings which the woman from above is better to carry out in a pose , it is necessary to agree with the partnershej about a signal which would show her that the orgasm comes nearer and it is necessary to stop movements.
For performance of exercise the man during affinity should be as much as possible weakened. At sensation of a coming nearer orgasm he submits a signal "stop", and the woman stops movements. If it is not enough of it or this for repayment of sensation of inevitability of an orgasm then partnersha should compress a penis at its or his basis or at the basis of a head for some seconds. After disappearance or eradication of sensation of affinity of an ejaculation, movement can be renewed before approach or approximation of a following wave. These cycles should be repeated with stoppings for depression of exaltation within 15 20 minutes. Then it is possible to finish affinity an orgasm with an ejaculation. When will feel, that the interval between waves of exaltation was extended, it is possible to change a position in which movements will carry out, for example, in a position the man from above .