Greetings! Can it is not necessaryl write, but has become painful. Advise, that to me to do or make....

[***]

Greetings! Can it is not necessaryl write, but has become painful.
Advise, that to me to do or make... To me of 25 years. So
There was on a heredity, that a need or requirement for sex
At me povyshenna (in occasion of a heredity: to mine
To the father of 50 years, mum stolkl, an intim of 5 6 and more times in
Week); we with my husband rovestniki, together we
The third year; in postele to me with it or him it is madly good, but
Frequency of this bed for me is equivalent hungry
To ration or soldering... .ja it or him ochen-very much I like, but I begin
Gradually to be bent: I feel simply not necessary.
It has started to be nervous, be broken, have appeared any
Pains... voobshchem a status otvratnoe. I simply do not know,
What to do or make... (to throw it or him is for me equivalently morses)

[The novel]

Dear * **! Very similar, that at you a neurosis..
Address to the neuropathologist. Accept lungs restful (tincture of Leonurus, for example)

[***]

And to do or make that as a result to me that??? Somnolents
To swallow? It not an output or exit... Therefore also I ask the answer
The expert. In a neurosis to not hammer it is necessary, and the reason
To eliminate or erase;remove (I the psychologist and I know that such
Neurosis and pr).

[Lily JAkovlevna]

You are right, the darling, it is necessary to eliminate or erase;remove the reason. But
Allow to ask all over again, how much once a week
For you - a short rations? Can, you present
To the husband the overestimated demands? And how much
Once a week (on the average, certainly) would be for
You it is comfortable? And more, why you have told or said that
chuvstuesh itself unnecessary? To you nehvataet sex or
Attention of the husband? These are different things, a potency to
To the second the attitude or relation has no.

[Roman]

Get or Start to itself the novel and delov that

[***]

The short rations is 1 2 once a week, for me
It would be normal once a day (that for 25 years to me
It seems quite normal)... Me does not suffice and
Attention, and sex... But I do not agree what is it things
The different order: sex is too attention,
Recognition of the person necessary to you, necessary,
Significant...

[To the NOVEL from ***]

I like the husband. I like simply because he
Is! And any others it is not necessary to me... But if
It will be possible, I want also to help or assist (for it or this I
Here) and if is not present - I shall better endure or
ononizmom I shall borrow or occupy, than to change....

[Lily JAkovlevna]

In something I with you agree. But in something also is not present.
Good, I can ask a question - to another: if the husband
Will be zanimtsja with you kachestennym sex dva-
Three times in a short every day (by the way, you not
Has told or said, what rhythm of an intimal life you
Has arranged), but in the rest attitudes or relations ostanutsja
Former, it will arrange you? Or you would like
To change and something outside of bed? You excuse, that I
You so I interrogate, but there can be a reason
Coldness your liked lays outside
Bedrooms, that more often also happens. You are right, 1 2
Time week can be considered as norm or rate of years after 35.
But, boju, the men similar to your father, great
Rarity. Anyway, the man, capable
It will be satisfied 1 razom in a week in 25 years, whether vrjat
It will be capable of 5 6 times a week after 50. It
Already physiology, with her you will not argue. And more one
Question. This disharmony has arisen or was with
The beginnings of attitudes or relations?

[To the NOVEL from ***]

I like the husband. I like simply because he
Is! And any others it is not necessary to me... But if
It will be possible, I want also to help or assist (for it or this I
Here) and if is not present - I shall better endure or
ononizmom I shall borrow or occupy, than to change....

[***]

If the rhythm of a life will be such as you speak,
I think to me it will be much better (whether badly,
Well, but the bed for me is very important, differently or otherwise
I start to complex very much)... Ideal for
Me a rhythm: some times in day, not longly, but
Intensively. In the beginning attitudes or relations all was much
More intensively, but after the beginning of joint life
All became as is now. On all my questions
Reaction one - I such what to eat and vary not
I want. One more thing: itself activity shows
Seldom, and when it is done or made by me, I am am declared that
The initiative I kill desire. On
To the nature I the strong person (not severe, and
Simply strong). He is more weak... Business in it or this can?
But chtozhe then? To Me what to begin in hysterics
To fight and be capricious, to create a kind weak?
I am afraid then he becomes even more weak (by the way he about
It or This directly also speaks...)

[Isaev D.D.]

Dear * **! Discrepancy of a level of sex need or requirement meets enough often. It is important to understand the reasons of these differences (and to understand often happens not simply) and to find the mutually acceptable decision. In the described case it is better to try to make it together with the sexologist. Similar, that much in your intimate relations roots in the field of psychology (will agree strange when young the man rejects caress of the wife and approves or confirms, that she the initiative kills desire ). In this case it is necessary to consider or examine typical variants of situations and reaction in them from both, and then already to search for an opportunity for harmonization of partner attitudes or relations.