The help of the expert is very necessary to me. The matter is that at us with the husband (we live...

[Svetlana]

The help of the expert is very necessary to me. The matter is that at us with the husband (we live 5 years) nothing turns out in bed. Physically both of us we wish sex, but we completely do not arrange each other as lovers. Problems were from the very beginning our joint life. He considered or counted me not skilled or experienced and not sex, he seem to me egoistichnym, not able to feel the woman. But I thought, that since times it will pass or take place - we shall get used... Instead of has passed or has taken place, it became now absolutely thin. Business was aggravated still with that after a birth of the child I have strongly recovered. And now the husband names it the reason of our ANY sex life. I am am horrified with an idea, that I should live all life and to not have normal sex (I never shall get or start the lover owing to the moral belief). But on a life we approach or suit each other and the husband speaks, that at us pltonicheskaja love. To me 26 and one platanicheskoj to me a little. I do not wish to destroy or blast family, but also to live SO, too I do not want. Can eat any ways to become interested the friend the friend by way of sex. Help or assist, if it in general is possible or probable.

[Dmitry]

It is necessary to go in seks a shop, there will help or assist also to you and the husband.

[svetlanka]

At me a similar trouble. 10 years are familiar, but all over again all was very good then gradually has descended or gone on a minus and an inclination and exaltations any. We very much often swear, undoubtedly, it too influences, but the reason not only in it or this. To me of 30 years, like, age when people receive satisfaction with ease, but not I. I wish to get on reception to the Expert, but I am afraid to be mistaken and strengthen the problems and pavors. An impasse any (. And about love similar all very much on others also I can not look.

[Cali]

Let to you the husband does not tell about excess weight. I have grown thin - the situation has not changed, and in the rest is very similar. And about "never" on the bill of the lover promise - when hormones to speak will begin also someone will remind that you not only the housewife, but also the WOMAN, moral belief will start to vary. I year 2 here read - similar complaints much, any efficient advice or council, any history with schastlivam the extremity or end.

[Svetlana]

Cali: So to do or make?!

[Svetlana]

svetlanka: you as - that try to solve this problem?

[Cali]

I think, to reconcile to that that love have passed or have taken place,
zavjali tomatoes, boots press also to us not on a way...
And seryozno, try to descend or go to the expert if will help or assist - tell to me! Success!

[Dmitry]

It is necessary not in konfe to be cried, and something to do or make for the decision of a problem. If to do or make nothing, so anything and will not be also will help or assist nobody. In the beginning it is necessary to find out, that is concrete you does not arrange and what is this the term "is impossible". Write more particularly that it is impossible, on items or points. In the beginning it is necessary to define or determine the reason (to diagnose:))), and then advice or councils to receive.
From myself here that I shall tell or say. Many girls do not do or make for example that do or make many other things. For example if the muzhik finishes, is normal when the girlfriend through a small time interval starts to do or make minet then sex again begins. And here it is abnormal if she after the first perepihona, through some minutes escape in a bath, also all then puts on. Well all so everything then nehren to complain then at forums, that who that not doudovletvoril. Though and for such idlers it is possible to find the prescription. Is around much yobarej which member will get from trousers and can boss it or him almost hours. So or search same or start to work.

[Cali]

Dmitry, the clear head you ours! At once have declared - the woman the idler! And when the girlfriend starts to do or make minet, and her in the answer, Yes do not touch or tamper with you me, yes I do not want... Or when belishko krasivenkoe-seksualnenkoe a plot - and in the answer, chyo has stuck, I do not want... A porno has dragged, after viewing - do not take in head me to touch or tamper with, I do not want... And others - want, such uhoshchreny it is not necessary to them. So think, whether always the woman is guilty before to blame - that

[Svetlana]

Dmitry: Cali it is absolutely right. Not one person does or makes sex, and two. You argue with the koloklni and if I after sex shall approach or suit and I shall start to do or make the husband minet, yes he from such impudence neznaju, that will make. Because being engaged with me love, he does or makes to me the HUGE favor. In every possible way it emphasizing, and I shall ask the additive). You have sincerely amused me.

[Dmitry]

Light! I am glad that has amused you, business this or thus good:). And I have written the ideas at all with reference to you, and more likely with reference to myself, t. e. To the histories. At you by your reports a situation other, however all the same personally to me nothing is clear from that that you have written. If the doctor has not responded, the same means to him not clearly. Personally I after perusal of your report had an opinion, that no love there at you is present and cannot be and that most likely to you the muzhik simply changes. Therefore as when there are feelings, mutual, all occurs or happens on another, and anybody does not render the favor. In general would write better on items or points, that particularly occurs or happens, and that to you does not approach or suit. Here such here my opinion.

[Natali]

Light, being in the same situation some years, I have understood precisely: if to the man by nature it is not given, it for ever as it is not regrettable. And any campaigns to the experts, any reading spets. Literatures, conversations, advice or councils WILL not help or assist!!!
He will be such always. And even if something will force it or him podnaprjachsja it or this will suffice for a short while. Therefore, advice or councils such: either get or start the lover, or calm or abirritate myself that you with the husband native people, with the general or common interests, habits and seks-it not the main thing (of what I very much doubt!). Personally I have got or started the lover, and from the husband to get divorced I am not going to, and conscience does not excruciate me, because, time cannot for something be received in one place it is necessary to find in other. Otherwise in fact and chronic female diseases can arise, let alone depressions and neurosises! Success to you!!!

[Cali]

The good fellow, Natali! Me has taken to understand it 3 years, now I do not regret. I discuss with myself a question on divorce MORE CORRECTLY. Light, cease to be excruciated - get or start the lover, hotjaby try or taste in what to you it is given up - it will be easier than the decision to accept.

[Dmitry]

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[Dmitry]

Personally I do not agree to get or start with this standard offer of all on the party or side of the muzhik. All I look live as that shablonno, in general as that is insensible. Dirtly it in general that. One business theoretically about such to reflect, and absolutely another practically in this all to plunge. From the muzhik on the party or side except for besides dirty perepihona, she is more than anything will not receive.

[Dmitry]

However after that there will be other problems of the psychological plan. And imagine still venerku to pick up:). More shortly, it is correct here that. Such union in which both love and sex then it will be valid both psychological and physiological satisfaction will be necessary. On myself I know, that start up is better will be only the loony. ud-nie, than will be fiziologich., but will not be psihologich.

[Dmitry]

And to find the person not so that it is simple. In general I think, in the given situation, to correct all with the husband easier, than to find 2 go the husband. Many after divorce so all life one also live, and anybody cannot find, and they are not necessary to anybody. What for such? And present she will get or start the muzhik, the husband learns or finds out and kranty the unions what she will do or make further? You Natali certainly raskazhi as you manage with whom that to meet and houses to happen to children simultaneously, that it can to that and it will be interesting.

[Dmitry]

To read from below upwards. A strange forum.

[Cali]

Dmitry, you think easier to correct? Tell or say as!

[Natali]

Dmitry, vo-the first, about dirty perepihona: at me ljubovnik-the remarkable person, super the tender lover, I such in a life yet did not meet, that the man so first of all thought of the woman, and then about myself. Vo-the second, about an ideal where there is both love and sex, and all so super-puper: tell or say to me, you in what fairy tale such saw it??? Yes, and more: do not set only to me banal questions why I then from the husband to the lover such remarkable do not leave, eo already a subject of other conversation, I do not leave also all. And too with myself about divorce I speak, as Cali, it is no more. And how I all am in time, and houses and not houses so very much even I am in time, I do not get fat but:-)))

[Cali]

Dmitry! The lover is from a word love, only game rules others. It is not dirty, and very much even is remarkable... If there is all in attitudes or relations is fine - and if is not present? By the way in this case presence of the lover saves to children of the father and mother - psychological health.

[1]

To female half of forum:
Who will prompt.... Can by experience.... And with women such situation.... What to do or make??? The probable reasons of occurrence.

[Jeanne]

Children or Guys, listen, I can tell or say one - marriage or spoilage without sex except for as "marriage or spoilage" and you will not name, girls, communicate to prostitutes, they will prompt you how to keep the man. I after sorts or labors have not got a good harmonous figure, but in sex I am an expert, at me the husband till now on me jumps as the boy of 15 years.... Think.... On the Internet it is a lot of information on how to make itself sexly attractive.... Esteem, learn

[The anonym]

Do not know why lovers seldom marry and leave the family and if it and happens in new family very much often the same problems?

[Svetlana]

Jeanne, and chiatalos, both it was looked, and it was talked, technics or technical equipment here at anything, I fine know as well as that it is necessary to do or make, but here the spark is not present. You understand? It as the pictures, one is fine executed also color scale picked up, instead of touches. Here in what a problem.