Alex S.
12.06.2004, 20:41
Hello!
At me a greater or big problem.
To me 24 years, some years at me were not
Normal sex attitudes or relations by virtue of of some the reasons which consist basically that
It was difficult to me to pick up the person with whom it would be pleasant to communicate. Well so it has turned out - why - the tenth question. The device of my private world does not allow to have sex with that who to me - chelovecheski not ineteresen, simply is not present exaltation, at all pret...
Well and so - when I, at last that, have met the person with whom to me it is good, and kotormu with me it is good, as consequences of so long continence have to spite got out, probably. It does not turn out to spend the normal sexual certificate or act at all! That - is, first minutes of our occurring I have a strong exaltation while business does not reach attempt " to make it ".
We embrace, touch to each other bodies, we kiss - all is fine, simply turned a head. As soon as the attention should be focused to sex as those - everything, exaltation completely vanishes. Some times it was possible to spend the high-grade sexual certificate or act - and all. At once vanishes both an erection and psychological exaltation and all becomes neintersnym.
We try to communicate two months with small.
Worse that is each failure causes a stressful status after which it would not be desirable already in general anything some days. I should solve this problem because I feel, that our attitudes or relations vot-here can collapse, though anybody would not like it or this. But so too cannot proceed further!
I know, I can be reproached with banality, having sent to read clauses or articles about stressful dysfunction and about seksoterapiju as they it is remarkable help or assist people. I this all fine know - psychology this my addicting.
Unfortunately, I am afraid here of that - the person can not wait several more months while there will be a job with seksoterapevtom. Besides at my young lady I have noticed phobia of this technique basically, she considers or counts, that I should cope itself with a situation and " to give her a gift ", and differently all will turn to any routine exercises from which all it becomes absolutely uninteresting.
From the physiological point of view at me, IMHO, it's OK - at znjatijah a masturbation the high-grade erection keeps till 40 minutes, morning and night erections always are, the size of a genital 16 x 4, 5. - to mine, absolutely it's OK! Actually, I simply feel, we should be adjusted or set up a little against each other, and all would be adjusted.
And, she does not want, that we left iz-for this problems, but I do not know, whether to agree to work she on seksoterapevticheskim to techniques - she wants, that once all has turned out also to us it became absolutely good.
In occasion of all it or this I have some questions:
1. Whether really to try to solve this problem to one? For example, by means of reception of Viagra or application of vacuum devices to result or bring itself in a status of a "unconditional" erection and, having felt " in forces ", thus peredavit cockroaches in a head.
2. How much or As far as these agents cause desire and an erection which is not controllable by a head, or vse-taki, being caused or called in such ways, she too can is fast vanish?
3. What, it is natural within the limits of appreciable errors, strongly approximately, it is possible to predict or forecast terms of normalization of attitudes or relations in case I vse-taki shall persuade it or her on seksoterapiju?
4. Despite of all attributes of especially stressful erectile dysfunction, can it is meaningful make full inspection for a level of hormones and t. Item because me really frightens indiferentnost which has arisen at me recently though I cold never considered or counted myself the person?
Here, while all. I apologize for the tightened or delayed letter.
Yours faithfully
At me a greater or big problem.
To me 24 years, some years at me were not
Normal sex attitudes or relations by virtue of of some the reasons which consist basically that
It was difficult to me to pick up the person with whom it would be pleasant to communicate. Well so it has turned out - why - the tenth question. The device of my private world does not allow to have sex with that who to me - chelovecheski not ineteresen, simply is not present exaltation, at all pret...
Well and so - when I, at last that, have met the person with whom to me it is good, and kotormu with me it is good, as consequences of so long continence have to spite got out, probably. It does not turn out to spend the normal sexual certificate or act at all! That - is, first minutes of our occurring I have a strong exaltation while business does not reach attempt " to make it ".
We embrace, touch to each other bodies, we kiss - all is fine, simply turned a head. As soon as the attention should be focused to sex as those - everything, exaltation completely vanishes. Some times it was possible to spend the high-grade sexual certificate or act - and all. At once vanishes both an erection and psychological exaltation and all becomes neintersnym.
We try to communicate two months with small.
Worse that is each failure causes a stressful status after which it would not be desirable already in general anything some days. I should solve this problem because I feel, that our attitudes or relations vot-here can collapse, though anybody would not like it or this. But so too cannot proceed further!
I know, I can be reproached with banality, having sent to read clauses or articles about stressful dysfunction and about seksoterapiju as they it is remarkable help or assist people. I this all fine know - psychology this my addicting.
Unfortunately, I am afraid here of that - the person can not wait several more months while there will be a job with seksoterapevtom. Besides at my young lady I have noticed phobia of this technique basically, she considers or counts, that I should cope itself with a situation and " to give her a gift ", and differently all will turn to any routine exercises from which all it becomes absolutely uninteresting.
From the physiological point of view at me, IMHO, it's OK - at znjatijah a masturbation the high-grade erection keeps till 40 minutes, morning and night erections always are, the size of a genital 16 x 4, 5. - to mine, absolutely it's OK! Actually, I simply feel, we should be adjusted or set up a little against each other, and all would be adjusted.
And, she does not want, that we left iz-for this problems, but I do not know, whether to agree to work she on seksoterapevticheskim to techniques - she wants, that once all has turned out also to us it became absolutely good.
In occasion of all it or this I have some questions:
1. Whether really to try to solve this problem to one? For example, by means of reception of Viagra or application of vacuum devices to result or bring itself in a status of a "unconditional" erection and, having felt " in forces ", thus peredavit cockroaches in a head.
2. How much or As far as these agents cause desire and an erection which is not controllable by a head, or vse-taki, being caused or called in such ways, she too can is fast vanish?
3. What, it is natural within the limits of appreciable errors, strongly approximately, it is possible to predict or forecast terms of normalization of attitudes or relations in case I vse-taki shall persuade it or her on seksoterapiju?
4. Despite of all attributes of especially stressful erectile dysfunction, can it is meaningful make full inspection for a level of hormones and t. Item because me really frightens indiferentnost which has arisen at me recently though I cold never considered or counted myself the person?
Here, while all. I apologize for the tightened or delayed letter.
Yours faithfully