Prompt please! onanizm-it is normal or vse-taki a deviation or rejection? It is alive...

[Katya]

Prompt please! onanizm-it is normal or vse-taki a deviation or rejection? There live with the husband 2 years, sex regular and various. But already some times found the husband behind this employment or occupation? Prompt as correctly to react or to not pay attention?

[Isaev D.D.]

Dear Katya! Already repeatedly it was necessary to write, that the masturbation often peacefully coexists with partner sex. Many married men and women resort to a masturbation for reception of pleasure which they separate from the pleasure tested at sex with the partner. More often self-stimulation of married people has no communication or connection with an estimation them of sex qualities of the partner. Self-stimulation at all does not mean, that the husband has a dissatisfaction with partner attitudes or relations. It is absolutely normal, does not testify in any way to the changed attitude or relation to spouses and is connected with that, what is it the opportunity to receive a fast discharge i/or to be betraid to any imaginations. Anything it is not necessary to do or make in this case! It is necessary to show a step and mutual understanding only!