Hello! At my husband a problem that he loses interest to the woman...

[Ksjusha]

Hello! At my husband a problem that he loses interest to the woman if long time with her lives. He very much likes me, precisely I know, that does not change to me. But sex at us practically is not present. Earlier sex was 3 4 times a day, sechas (2, 5 years) - once a month... What will be further? Thus I see, that he very much often comes on erotic sites, interest at it or him nevertheless means is. Too most at it or him was with the previous wife. What to do or make? I very much like it or him, to change to him I am not going to. At us the small child. To me 22 years, very much would not be desirable to give up as a bad job intimate relations. I very temperamental person, for me sex play the important role.

[Gosha]

.. In the evening on ntv " sex in the big city " I certainly understand, what is it cinema, but I recommend... There there are answers to many questions...

[Olya]

I had the same, all over again once a week, then once a month, and then time in 2 - 3 months. And as then with kompjuterami and the Internet still was not so simply my was or former (thanks God now at me another, normal) the husband secretly from me (as soon as I fell asleep, not having waited) looked through executions or performances of matrimonial duties pornofilms. Then to me too was about 22 years and the child small was. And I not any ugly creature, and a figure at me good. I have tried then all: erotic linen and shoes on heels, arrangements, tried to excite or raise it or him in any image, and he the member between legs or foots will clamp and otvorachivaetsja.

[111]

At me the same problem Only in marriage or spoilage I already
10 Now with the husband we do not sleep at all even together
At it or him to me interest absolutely was gone, at me too I ochen-very much suffered, was engaged in an onanism
Gets divorced did not want, at us friendly enough attitudes or relations the Adult daughter On change went hardly
But has come to conclusion, that the only thing, that me can stimulate to desire to be the woman
I think, that at it or him the same problems, but on frankness anybody from us does not go, I consider or count, already there is no sense With partners of the attitude or relation poderzhivaju not longly
Also it was always convinced, that my husband the best as the person, never regretted, that has not divorced
The problem odna-already age to find the normal muzhik not so prosto/with what has got not pojdesh/

[Ksjusha]

Thanks for answers. All is very sad... The matter is that I too consider or count, that my husband - the best the man from everyone whom I knew. Only this problem... Really there is no output or exit? Can be descend or go snim on consultation to the sexopathologist? Or it is useless?

[Ksjusha]

At me one more question. My husband approves or confirms, that there are two types of men: odni-often change and then with wives at them a high-grade intimal life; the second - such as he - lose interest to sex through any time. You agree with it or this? Really there is no " average of the man "?

[Olya]

By the way my husband sometimes showed interest to other women, especially when drank. But even, after he began to meet the mistress to whom he has left from me, and then and married her, this problem has remained with it or him. That is all over again at them there what that sex was, and then again all on old. She in a hysterics supposedly you do not want me, and he complains to me (with us have simply remained friendly otnosheni), that cannot bear or take out even a kind of its or her underwear and as soon as she for a threshold, he at once to the TV, to look pornushku and masturbirovat. Certainly, the onanism is normally, but not when so pereklinivaet. I so think it is connected with any complexes of the childhood. The sexopathologist can help or assist, and can not help or assist.
First marriage for me was loss of precious time though I liked the husband. One only is good, at ienja from this marriage or spoilage there was a daughter.