To me of 28 years. 5 years married, but recently the husband has declared, that I any in a post...

[Lucy]

To me of 28 years. 5 years married, but recently the husband has declared, that I any in bed. It would not be desirable it or him to surprise, but I can think up anything new, can will prompt any priemchiki. And more he speaks, that I am not able to do or make minet. Someone can will seem frivolously, but I am afraid soon the husband will go on the party or side. Very much I hope to the aid.

[Iris]

Excuse me, but your husband simply boor. As it is possible such to tell or say, I do not understand. And if you will tell or say to the husband, what he does not satisfy you?. Would show is better, how it is pleasant to him. Know, he does not like you. Find to itself another. You not hand over examination, there should be a mutual desire, mutual caress, mutual orgasms. When you in ecstasy, you do not hesitate to tell or say: " Yes, here, below, yes, still, here here, lizni me... ", etc. also This my opinion. When there is no desire, there is no also a pleasure from sex, there is no satisfaction. And to be on the ball in bed, it is necessary to respect and and the partner. You were not employed to it or him;them in the prostitute?

[Zjuka]

And why you so are assured, what he does not go any more on the party or side? Means, 5 years arranged it or him, and then he was typed or collected experience at someone and demands from you similar
Things? And you wish to do or make minet? Can, it will be opposite to you! And in general, he to you does or makes all conceivable and inconceivable pleasures or only demands from you for itself? Similar, that he simply egoist! If it or him prispichilo with minetom it is possible to find quite that which will make and not dolbat the wife
That she any. When married, in fact it was normal, so let now he and learns or teaches you, and that learn or find out priemchiki and where a guarantee, what he will not accuse you after that of communications or connections on the party or side?

[In lipstick]

It is not necessary to forget, that for muzhiks in difference from women sex pervostipenen. Probably told or said by your husband was consequence or investigation of that it or he had an experience of dialogue with other women, it is not necessary to panic necessary to talk normally to it or him of that he wants from sex. And the main thing to understand itself, in your attitude or relation to sex, and that at one my friend of year etak in 32 has cardinally changed the attitude or relation to sex, she was years 12 in brake-sex for it or her was a lovely entertainment when it or she had a difficult day weariness always won an inclination, and here now all has changed, I do not know the reason, noteper she speaks, that its or her body is much more sensitive, and an orgasm more strongly and more for a long time, etc. So sometimes it is necessary to reconsider the approach to those or other things, including and to sex, and he is important enough in family attitudes or relations.

[Anna]

Very interestingly: opinions different, but nevertheless are not present the answer to a question. I have lived with the husband of 25 years and he too has desired minet. To tell the truth, I have apprehended it as the insult for have been assured, that he had pleasure from it or him already on the party or side. In marriage or spoilage I was sexly neudovletvorena, but did not fool around. Once and for all having solved or decided, that my two perfect children also are my award for hard family work. And he has left to that, that was more sexly me. And has at parting told or said, that I for 25 years so (in bed) have not learned anything. Thus he not the boor. Simply for many men - sex - half of life, is not present in itself pleasure, there is no it or her and in a life. Has passed or has taken place 9 years and all 9 years I hear the same: as he could leave: you such attractive, such, etc. And the answer are simple: from the youth sexly has not developed and as the woman I do not represent interest (probably). I wish good luck.

[Tanja]

Yes, it would be desirable to hear opinions of men on this question.

[" The habit devours marriage or spoilage "]

Understand, sex is DERIVATIVE of yours with the husband of attitudes or relations, them rezultirujushchee. It is necessary stroit/to build attitudes or relations, and the base to them - mutual respect. If it or him is not present (" you any in bed ") is artificial to build ("priyomchiki") nothing will be possible.

[Irina]

Your husband - the silly person. I am firmly assured, that any woman is sex and can be good in beds, the main thing - that the man has woken in her this feeling. There can be your husband thinks only of own pleasure, instead of about you?

[Thorn]

Well easier or simply to not be kept from the answer, lady!:)
1. To Anna - SUCH objective woman I still did not meet separate admiration. The good fellow. (I shall meet such girl - I marry not looking)
2. Lucy! The man, speaking about "any", any more yours. The boldness has sufficed Him to tell or say it aloud - t. e. On YOUR insult to him already to spit to Him it is valid you a little. It is not meant at once that by him - bad, "has changed" and t. Item Simply you mismatch its or his needs or requirements, temperament and it has bothered him to suffer or bear. (a plant louse, I and have not sustained year!)
3. "Priyomchiki" to you will not help or assist. More precisely, " late to drink borzhomi... ".:) you ALREADY "discredited" yourselves - all leaves the trace. "Priyomchiki" is only technics or technical equipment and where a guarantee, what they will like him? (you also should find out it during sex) With what kind you are going to to present him these "receptions"? Type I became another? It will be similar more likely to humiliation, than on a variety - your receptions will "stick out" from developed yours with it or him of " bed traditions ".

In general, by a question, he - you "regretted" all life, silent and most likely was satisfied on the party or side, and you - too rather passively concerned to it or him;them (egoistka?) and as consequence or investigation - to the role in bed. Not without reason all " seks-textbooks " dazzle banal " give More - receive " more. Well and how much have given or remote - receive so much. It is a pity, that you have come round only in 5 years...

[Asenka]

And it seems to me, that is good, that he speaks about it or this. Means, still there are chances to save marriage or spoilage. Would be worse, if he silently veshchichki has collected and has left, nothing explaining. On the other hand, each time, being engaged with it or him sex you will hold a question in a head, has surprised or not? It can will be reflected in your sensations. I do not know, whether it is necessary to maintain such relations? Can you will find someone who approaches or suits you more?

[Lucy]

So concrete I also have not heard anything. To find another? And the child to throw out? He/she is its or his father and to me with it or him to live till an old age even if has passed or has taken place love and an inclination. Yes, he to me does or makes minet, but after in bathing longly rinses a throat so I do not allow him more. To me not so that it is not pleasant, but it is tolerant. For me sex has ceased to be something important but if it is necessary for him, I shall try. And now, I ask you, give advice or council on technics or technical equipment. He probably too hesitates to explain to me all, I think intuitively I shall guess.

[Lucy]

Yes, and more, you saw pairs or steams which after 5 years of a joint life still wish each other without any dope, t. e. Alcohol, a porno, etc.
All is bored. And I do not wish each 5 years to change the husband.

[Asenka]

What can be technics or technical equipment if you to him physically naprijatny-rinses a throat!!! You cannot change the smell and taste, to become above or below body height, at own will to move on the body erogenic zones?!!! Really you, the young woman, such attitude or relation arranges? And and here the child, it is not necessary to cover the pavor to remain one child. To the child can will better, if mum will be happy.

[Rura]

Lucy, look or see a porno and offer something that there will see to the husband. Dress erotichnoe linen, buy or purchase any features in seks-a shop.
Or meet the husband from job naked or exposed, whether yes a little that it is possible to think up, if certainly you wish something to change.

[Iris]

And you in general like sex? Or it to you in burden? Try to see enough a porno, become unchained, dissolute in bed, show, that it is pleasant to you, that you do or make it for yourselves, instead of for it or him! It should be adjusted. And basically, on its or his love any more raschityvajte, perceive it or him as something passing, can, it will touch it or him, and he will start you to respect as the woman. While he as all of us have noticed, does not do or make it or this. Happiness to you.