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Sergey
12.05.2004, 04:50
What "norm or rate" for a masturbation that there were no consequences (to me 15 years)

The anonym
12.05.2004, 21:12
I do not recommend you in general uvlekatsja to these or it;this.
On itself has eaten. Extinguished the hypersexuality, but then that that happens at me. At presence of the girl, the erection arose only when I was raslablen. The erection Sometimes fell down at attempts to enter a member. I needed simply calmness and the imagination, I have got used to it or this.
To this day problems though patentsija washing did not sleep, I live with constants partnyorshami, with new always problems. So, you solve, it is my history.

Igor
13.05.2004, 07:08
Similar problems. Does not rise at a kind of the naked woman. I so think that iz-for masturbations - the organism gets used to the certain stereotype of behaviour.
First thought - physical problems, proverilsja-is not present, a problem in brains nevertheless. From a constant partnershej problems are not present. Even if not hochestsja-hardly has helped or assisted an arm or a hand to itself - and all ok.

Natalia
14.05.2004, 08:37
Sergey! Do not listen you to them! You do not know how much it or him years and as often they were engaged in it or this! I asked already to the doctor such question as at me the son and here that he has responded me, esteem: " Usually boys begin masturbirovat before girls and do or make it three times more intensively. Increase with the years quantities or amounts malchikov-the teenagers having experience of a masturbation: In 12 years - 21 %; in 13 years - 45 %; in 14 years - 74 %; in 15 years - 80 %; in 16 years - 86 %; in 17 years - 90 %; in 18 years - 92 %. The teenage masturbation is normal and natural to this age, acts as a natural stage in development of healthy sexuality. She satisfies series of essential needs or requirements of teenagers: weakens or easies a mental and physical strain, serves as safe way sex eksperimentirovanija, raises or increases a degree of confidence at sex dialogue with the partner, supervises sex impulses, helps or assists to overcome feeling of loneliness, removes or takes out the general or common stress. Many young men during a masturbation romance on subjects of sex and use erotic or pornographic materials. Among students more than 60 % of young men for stimulation of exaltation use eroticheski or pornographic pictures, films, and among women - only 12 %. For teenagers stimulating exaltation there can be quite "innocent" photos, fair brochures, entertaining magazines. The appreciable part of young men feels faults, but despite of similar sincere torments, flours or torments of conscience practically do not influence frequency masturbatsionnoj experts podrostkov-boys, but can constrain in any degree similar activity at girls. Sometimes in the literature it is underlined danger of excessive, too frequent masturbation. Actually the organism carries out a natural self-regulation: when there comes sex saturation, interest to sex exaltation and its or his discharge dies away or goes out. Unfounded fears of those adults which consider or count, that employment or occupation by a masturbation can avert from interest to dialogue with an opposite floor, "close" interests of the teenager on itself. However there was no frequent a reference or manipulation of the young man to self-stimulation, in its or his head in overwhelming majority of cases there are images of desirable partners, with which he dreams of an occurring. Also representations are not competent, that self-stimulation can deprive with the teenager of sufficient forces which are required for employment or occupation by study. The orgasm can unload the collected strain and to lead to some relaxation, but thus the organism does not lose energy and it is productive to ability to solve costing or standing problems or tasks. The special attention of experts is demanded only with cases when the masturbation has the open, naked or exposed character, it is carried out publicly, at presence of adults. That is only when the young man or the girl cease to operate or control the desires and to correlate them to a real situation (a sex disinhibition). Attempts of pedagogical pressure, punishments and interdictions usually have no success, but can lead to neurotic failure at the teenager, especially if it or him start to frighten terrible of " consequences of an onanism .

The anonym
14.05.2004, 14:02
Natalia is theoretically, I speak that at me and what consequences. Do or make a conclusion.

Isaev D.D.
16.05.2004, 01:47
Dear Sergey! To a masturbation it is necessary to concern as to a way of reception of a physiological discharge. Any norms or rates here does not exist. Each person can have individual need or requirement and frequency of its or her occurrence. It depends on intensity of an inclination, a degree of an expression of a dyscomfort... As the organism itself adjusts or regulates need or requirement and an opportunity of its or her exercise no "consequences" can be!