Psihofiz
01.05.2004, 02:04
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Situation at me such: I do not know its or her reason PHYSICAL or PSYCHOLOGICAL. I hope, that you will prompt me character of a problem.
I state all in detail, I hope it you will not tire:
I practically had no sex experience that is connected including with my problem. Several years ago problems with libido at me was not, whether in occasion of that there were problems with an erection of anything to tell or say I can not - then I kak-that did not think of it or this...
Long time was engaged in an onanism (7 8 years) at last has met the girl (1, 5 years ago) from which at me " has broken a roof ", but affinity with her at me was not sweethearts it or her could not (in spite of the fact that we tselovalis-embraced it or her that that stopped...). I have left for other city and correspondence certainly has given nothing (has passed or has taken place a lot of time and it or she had a guy). I longly experienced in this occasion. And when "has fused", the problem of "virginity" began to disturb me - well I longly would search for girls that this problem to solve. But that that did not carry, though searched activly and " constraining and clamped " was not. Has in parallel started to read the literature on technics or technical equipment of sex and has started to suspect that at me an insufficient erection (so it was or not any more I do not remember).
The neurosis also has begun with this moment at me...
Except for that I already also worked and studied therefore strongly got tired certainly. During the compelled or forced continence as that has imperceptibly turned out so, what even I was engaged in an onanism not when the erection already was, and whether "caused" it or her chto-.... - any more I do not remember! - but now that business is SO (!)
Has decided to check up that at me and as functions (me 19 already was) and has removed or has taken off the street prostitute on an hour (about morals speech did not go any more). To rise a member did not want, but she has made minet and the erection has appeared but what to achieve a steady erection 15 20 minutes were required. Then, minutes 30 vaginalno - but there it was not clear that and as with an erection (wide + the condom) in fast rate - but could not terminate a vagina is tired. When it or her has left an erection began to vanish quickly.
Longly there was a depression, then in a month vstetil on rest very nice girl and the erection like began to arise on it or her (though and not at once but only when I caressed it or her and quickly started to vanish it was necessary to stop caress), libido began to be restored. But except for a petting and the subsequent pain in a scrotum from exaltation:), it is more than nothing bylo-too have parted in different cities.
As a result now --
libido practically is absent (physical reaction),
There was a psychological barrier - starting to communicate with the girl already think of failure: (when you think of that that in bed most likely there will be a failure - think that will be a pity enough to be looked on a background of that guy which was up to you (virgins at my age already practically is not present, and it only would aggravate all)
Morning erection - the phenomenon the extremely rare or infrequent and unstable (several years ago like it was better though I do not remember).
B) At " manual job " eretsija to become on the present a rack only at enough strong stimulation (thus the member in dlinnu from 10 reaches up to 13, 5 14 see). And only in predorgazmennom a status if can stop to hold on itself nearby 10 20 with (well on hours I certainly have not measured.)
D) Exaltation earlier (several years ago) occured or happened quickly (one picture sufficed, not that that the girl to caress). Now only if the porno to look and that "arms or hand" to help or assist itself.
F) Can be still subconsciously I am am confused with the size of a member and that fact that at me at erections ("needlework") he costs or stands degrees under 60 and only after strong stimulation under 90 + to it or this was not any more on the present of successful experience (even with "professionalkoj" though she externally was average, I was afraid of that nibud to pick up and in general it is unusual...)
E) Here has recollected still... In the childhood has casually received impact in a floor. The member (there was even a small ecchymosis) traces from it or this does not remain almost (well unless only the small cicatrix in the form of an arch sideways sticks out - noticeably only at a strong erection) can on it or him;them there is an outflow of a blood or he stirs or prevents to inflow. Probably iz-for it or him a member will a little bend to the right.
Prompt, the Doctor mentality or physiology or both that and another together (in a sort at anybody such problems were not the father so in general in 15 years was ogo-go (and I under the constitution have gone to the father), narcotics I do not use, I do not smoke, I do not abuse alcohol, there are no disturbances of a metabolism, on endocrine too all in norm or rate - a voice low, all hairy:))
I hope to begin the decision of this problem because she strongly stirs or prevents lives if to not tell or say that in general spoils all...
P/S Excuse if has tired you with such long story. - but differently hardly it would be possible to find roots of a problem.
Situation at me such: I do not know its or her reason PHYSICAL or PSYCHOLOGICAL. I hope, that you will prompt me character of a problem.
I state all in detail, I hope it you will not tire:
I practically had no sex experience that is connected including with my problem. Several years ago problems with libido at me was not, whether in occasion of that there were problems with an erection of anything to tell or say I can not - then I kak-that did not think of it or this...
Long time was engaged in an onanism (7 8 years) at last has met the girl (1, 5 years ago) from which at me " has broken a roof ", but affinity with her at me was not sweethearts it or her could not (in spite of the fact that we tselovalis-embraced it or her that that stopped...). I have left for other city and correspondence certainly has given nothing (has passed or has taken place a lot of time and it or she had a guy). I longly experienced in this occasion. And when "has fused", the problem of "virginity" began to disturb me - well I longly would search for girls that this problem to solve. But that that did not carry, though searched activly and " constraining and clamped " was not. Has in parallel started to read the literature on technics or technical equipment of sex and has started to suspect that at me an insufficient erection (so it was or not any more I do not remember).
The neurosis also has begun with this moment at me...
Except for that I already also worked and studied therefore strongly got tired certainly. During the compelled or forced continence as that has imperceptibly turned out so, what even I was engaged in an onanism not when the erection already was, and whether "caused" it or her chto-.... - any more I do not remember! - but now that business is SO (!)
Has decided to check up that at me and as functions (me 19 already was) and has removed or has taken off the street prostitute on an hour (about morals speech did not go any more). To rise a member did not want, but she has made minet and the erection has appeared but what to achieve a steady erection 15 20 minutes were required. Then, minutes 30 vaginalno - but there it was not clear that and as with an erection (wide + the condom) in fast rate - but could not terminate a vagina is tired. When it or her has left an erection began to vanish quickly.
Longly there was a depression, then in a month vstetil on rest very nice girl and the erection like began to arise on it or her (though and not at once but only when I caressed it or her and quickly started to vanish it was necessary to stop caress), libido began to be restored. But except for a petting and the subsequent pain in a scrotum from exaltation:), it is more than nothing bylo-too have parted in different cities.
As a result now --
libido practically is absent (physical reaction),
There was a psychological barrier - starting to communicate with the girl already think of failure: (when you think of that that in bed most likely there will be a failure - think that will be a pity enough to be looked on a background of that guy which was up to you (virgins at my age already practically is not present, and it only would aggravate all)
Morning erection - the phenomenon the extremely rare or infrequent and unstable (several years ago like it was better though I do not remember).
B) At " manual job " eretsija to become on the present a rack only at enough strong stimulation (thus the member in dlinnu from 10 reaches up to 13, 5 14 see). And only in predorgazmennom a status if can stop to hold on itself nearby 10 20 with (well on hours I certainly have not measured.)
D) Exaltation earlier (several years ago) occured or happened quickly (one picture sufficed, not that that the girl to caress). Now only if the porno to look and that "arms or hand" to help or assist itself.
F) Can be still subconsciously I am am confused with the size of a member and that fact that at me at erections ("needlework") he costs or stands degrees under 60 and only after strong stimulation under 90 + to it or this was not any more on the present of successful experience (even with "professionalkoj" though she externally was average, I was afraid of that nibud to pick up and in general it is unusual...)
E) Here has recollected still... In the childhood has casually received impact in a floor. The member (there was even a small ecchymosis) traces from it or this does not remain almost (well unless only the small cicatrix in the form of an arch sideways sticks out - noticeably only at a strong erection) can on it or him;them there is an outflow of a blood or he stirs or prevents to inflow. Probably iz-for it or him a member will a little bend to the right.
Prompt, the Doctor mentality or physiology or both that and another together (in a sort at anybody such problems were not the father so in general in 15 years was ogo-go (and I under the constitution have gone to the father), narcotics I do not use, I do not smoke, I do not abuse alcohol, there are no disturbances of a metabolism, on endocrine too all in norm or rate - a voice low, all hairy:))
I hope to begin the decision of this problem because she strongly stirs or prevents lives if to not tell or say that in general spoils all...
P/S Excuse if has tired you with such long story. - but differently hardly it would be possible to find roots of a problem.