Whether it is possible for something to help or assist? The girlfriend for the husband of 6 years. The husband (neither fish nor fowl)...

[Olga]

Whether it is possible for something to help or assist?
The girlfriend for the husband of 6 years. The husband (neither fish nor fowl) if to recollect it or him during former times, she, it is possible to tell or say: has washed, has brushed, has dressed up, has accustomed to cleanliness, the order, high-grade dinners and suppers. Very longly she sat with the child - all the put 3 years. Well, and, as happens, has grown fat, and podnadoela (well every day it is similar on previous: all is cleaned or removed, the child is well-groomed, the supper is ready). He after a supper constantly in a computer. Well and, probably, has decided to amuse itself on the party or side. She began to guess, but as usually happens, wished to admit to itself it or this. He certainly likes the child. On the offer to be at mum, doubting, but nevertheless has agreed. And here in 3 months of separate residing and expectations of the wife that will think again, he declares, that at it or him new love. Has found, this "MOST WORTHY" to itself(himself) "princess" for 7 years is younger (her 22), all such beautiful but when to it or him made advances, knew, that the wife in a maternity leave and all from here following, that the man is not free, in general, innocence this "princess". It was found out, that soul of this "Most worthy" mechetsja , and he cannot on what to be solved or dare (a cloth he was always, a steam locomotive they always had its or his wife). The girlfriend and is more interesting, and directly we shall tell or say "is more perspective", than he, in sense one does not remain. But, the lived years, the child, a habit, eventually, and loneliness not only sincere, but also now is real its or her surrounding (relatives are, but I not about them), uncertainty ahead , certainly all this is serious. If the girlfriend was not the wife and mother in the most good sense of this word, probably, would find a way to not recollect it or this and to diversify the life. How to her to help or assist? Where to find worthy the man that she has forgotten, the aforesaid.. . It or Her not worthy? Or there is other way. Yes! I should wish all "similar" (to the described husband) - to selectors of happiness as it is possible to like more strong new "princesses", and to princesses to walk from them more and to find to myself another on the present worthy the man.

[tusja]

Olechka and that she wants? If to return the husband she should change the life. The child - in sadik or the nurse, itself - on job. New orders (not necessarily dear or expensive), a hairdress to grow thin!!! To go in for sports and in general appearance. To diversify sex. To start to develop. To make so that to the husband she was intersena both as the woman, and as the person. Well not about suppers all time to talk. If she wishes to forget it or him, all aforesaid plus attempt of the new easy or light;mild novel, dialogue with friends, outputs or exits in kino-teatr-vystavki-kontserty-kafe-fitness... Looking that to her is closer.

[Olja]

While she would like anybody, neither to hear, nor to see. Also it would be desirable, that he has come round, but itself to it or this to push should not, she knows it (tears and arrangements here will not help or assist), and whether it is necessary...

[Lerchik]

Olga, by your words turns out, that she almost on a flusher has found the husband: (If he is so bad, then your girlfriend should cross and begin a new life about which spoke tusja on pleasures.

[tusja]

No, tears will not help or assist. But it is impossible to sit such klushej (excuse, you so have described it or her!). It is necessary to cease to regret, be closed itself from the world. To show, that she independent interesting lady.

[Olga]

:)) Girls! There is no not on a flusher she it or him has found. But, how to be spoken " blinded that was " and in general it is not bad, as it is found out, time he on women has gone. To not regret itself it is complex or difficult, the some people will understand me. And here " to be closed from the world ", understand in fact small, own, so longly created mirok (, cosy) has collapsed. Up to other world while there is no business or affairs. Therefore and it is difficult. How to help or assist? She works, already almost year, but there to get acquainted there is nobody. And the child in sadike, and in a hairdressing salon goes, only all this the environment, and soul at it or her hurts.

[Olga]

Yes, and more in occasion of klushi. And you kogda-nibud sat though a floor of year with the baby who speaks in the tongue, without you cannot seconds. And then certainly there was no she neither dirty, nor not combed. Thick was. Tired was... And so.

[tusja]

Olja, I understand, that with rebenokm hardly and I do not reproach it or her. But in fact now the situation is hardly easier. The child not so such small. It is a high time to borrow or occupy in itself. That the child grew happy or enough and healthy, healthy mum is necessary to him. And the world it is necessary to communicate! postepenoo, not at once. With close girlfriends, relatives. To try to find to itself hobii, kuda-that to get out. I too had a period when itself it was a pity - horror! Truths, children were not... But it was necessary to find in itself forces. I have understood, that exhausted, become thin or thin, with nesachtsnym the face I was or former, to anybody to another I shall be not necessary. She needs to grow fond of itself, to think that the main thing, that at it or her is - not the husband, and she and the child. And to do or make all for itself and it or him. The soul will hurt or be ill;be sick, but it is necessary to distract itself from this pain. It is necessary to be constantly something borrowed or occupied. It is necessary to communicate with the world! It is necessary to undertake itself. And your problem or task - to not regret it or her at dialogue, and to try to distract, think up joint sorties. In fact what's happened? Nobody has died, all are healthy, and this main thing! And if she will think less of the husband, to her only it will be easier.

[Masha]

I almost 1, 5 years sat with the child and not thick tired was not. 1. As to itself to concern. 2. The desired child does not strain 3. The help mamy/njani/dr. And 2 3 times a week on fitness. If she of razlenila-raspustila-that... And why you, actually, for it or her speak? Time she such drive of progress, that, can, her to take care of adjustment of the life? Here would not like to have such girlfriend who would try razrulit my life and would state an estimation to my husband: - ((

[Olga to Masha]

At your attentiveness and keenness to another, in particular to the text of my report, I believe to you and 5 detok would not seem are burdensome, as you have told or said "would not strain". Besides I try to help or assist her, instead of razrulit (can you do not feel a difference?). To be closer or more attentive it is necessary before "to spit out" advice or councils and to brag of the easy or light;mild attitude or relation to a life.

[Masha]

At me that's all right with keenness, and I read closely or attentively. It will be valid to me to bring up easy the children, as they to me in pleasure. I am not going to to respond to your insults, I have only expressed the opinion.

[Oksana]

Olja! All of you mind, but girls correctly advise all of you. She should not sit, and to do or make something the best for herself. Why to her not to become more beautiful, to not buy new things, to indulge itself with something. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If she becomes more interesting to herself also men to her will be pulled. In fact to the person associates concern also, as he to themselves.

[Casual starikan]

Olja, me podozvala to the screen you rovesnitsa, and as it seems to me, here indeed is than you to console. Tell or say on favour and why you so like YOURSELVES a little? Girls, that in this forum, please join: it that, really to be harmonous, resilient, sex it is necessary only to 17 00 on weekdays when this will come... And? By the way, rastit the child does not mean at all to grow fat, etc. (I speak as the husband, the father, the lover and the grandfather). And me, old perdunu, do not spin brains what to erase diapers means to cease to be painted in the mornings. Olenek (speech in fact about you, instead of about the invented girlfriend) why you so a little itself appreciate? You have all: in judgements and the child - what feature you yourselves humiliate a youth, independence? Can be to him, this or thus unworthy you, it would be necessary to be excruciated in ideas: " How to be, how to be? "
Think of itself, about young, beautiful, worthy to be liked and able to like! By the way, about appearance: not badly to see to it (at this forum of the girl to you will prompt), but not for the fool, and for itself, FOR ITSELF!!! I Understand, that my views sporny, but has written not for sofistiki, and for Oli. Thanks.

[Nika]

If at your girlfriend the small child, means she and itself is still young? Will depart, time is necessary, let will cry, potoskuet if brains on a place, it to her only on advantage or benefit will go. If it is fair, difficulties of the decretal period, I too consider or count preukrashinymi, on the contrary on mine, a lot of time and for myself liked. Than can help or assist? Well do not throw it or her simply, distract from time to time. And here I as that not so like purposeful courtships. All should be natural. Success.

[Gapka]

Oh, hold me three! The husband on a flusher has picked up, itself pryntsessa, vladychitsa sea. That the husband on the left did not look - to like it or him it is necessary, instead of to estimate or appreciate, as a piece of meat on a market! And that - in each word the neglect to the muzhik, and there, wants that on tiptoe ran!

[Sergey]

Olga, seems to me, that your good intentions (and they really good) can be not absolutely pertinent. Dostojnyj-unworthy to solve or decide not to you. There is a saying: " love of a harm... ". She can will is happy with the husband how with anybody another? As, it appears, it or him will return not so difficultly though, opjat-taki, not me to judge. Start up is better your girlfriend she will think that wants or wishes and will cease to wait while someone there will think again.

[Marina]

To not cost to climb not in the sani. People will reconcile, and you will remain extreme. You write, that at the girlfriend is komjuter, advise her to come into section of " Female psychology ". Let esteems about others and will tell about itself.

[The anonym]

Hello, the doctor! How to be, if two doctors speak absolutely different things? To the child of 8 months, already gde-that month under the reference of the orthopedist is dressed to a daughter boots. One doctor speaks, that boots "correct" as arch supports are not necessary to such small children, other doctor considers or counts, that boots with arch supports are necessary. So who from them the rights?

[Emotion to Masha]

Masha, is glad for you, that you could save yourselves not tired, harmonous, etc. at the heroine was - to another as its or her girlfriend has described. And can not there were at it or her nurses, mums, etc. series? And muzhenyok it or her did not help or assist, most likely. .a men and from beautiful wives walk, harmonous and interesting and leave for the reasons of unknown persons... Now the question consists in how to help or assist... I would wish such myself the girlfriend (and she at me is), and your experience, probably, has hardly other shade and color and you HAVE not experienced told... It seems to me also, that the author and is that woman, very much she with trembling and details tells about feelings broshenoj women. Anyway... It is insulting, that moulded for itself, and another has got.

[Zverev esja]

I shall buy or purchase your girl-friend.

[The old woman ancient]

And it is good to be rich and to have liking grandmothers. And if there is no money for that fitness? Whence they suddenly will undertake at the woman who are not worked 3? And there is nobody to leave for the period of fitness of the child? Nurses free-of-charge does not happen, and at the some people and mums are not present. The new orders not necessarily dear or expensive. Where it you such saw it? Or how much standard units now are inexpensive.
Casual starikan it is absolutely right, but... He does not suppose an opportunity that is far not to all women for love to the ideal figure and a make up are necessary.
That most of all it is pleasant to me, so it that the woman again should. The husband should not earn to the wife on the nurse, fitness and cosmetics, to deduce or remove it or her to the public and her to be interesting. Believe to me, at the good husband of the wife do not fall, even if suddenly will grow stout.
Only in any way to me to not understand, how the man is entered in the lovely discussed woman lovely and cosy world inutile? - to mine, it is things nesomestimye

[Emotion]

The old woman ancient is very right, in a root looks, not all have an opportunity and on all are necessary money!!!

[The anonym]

Emochka, at you bulka penziju receives for zemletrus. So you it or her take away and send to club.

[The anonym]

Greetings Lerchik! Greetings Emotion! Greetings Nika! Tell to us the case history.

[Emotion to the anonym]

And you are assured what I the present or true Emotion when about the granny that you write? I can both Nika and Lerchik? To yourself you contradict. When it is convenient, you believe, that I am I and when at tja the next attack of a neuralgia so all to confuse you begin! A sediment!!!