Good afternoon! Here I sit and I am excruciated. My friend Ira has come to me with a problem...

[Natalia]

Good afternoon! Here I sit and I am excruciated. My friend Ira has come to me with a problem. Present a situation: the husband worked as someone in any organs to avoid army. Rabotenka easy, but on 3 thousand rbl. Ira ploughs the economist in the big firm and earns additionally still in 3 h places. Lived on a private or an individual apartment. The firm gives Irina an apartment for the enslaving contract for 15 years. Two years ago she makes a daughter, the army any more does not threaten the husband, but he continues to work on 3 thousand With one month ago husband admits, that has lost money, about cost polkvartiry. Thus he there and then keeps within hospital, and creditors with threats start to overcome Irina. I think, you represent, she has tested what shock. At home the child with the nurse, she all the day at job. And here comes to me behind advice or council. And I in a temper speak: get divorced. She quickly gets divorced and houses forbid to him to appear. In general, have thrown out for a board muzhichka. The horror takes me at an idea on its or his further destiny and from my advice or councils. Have deprived with the child of the father, young muzhichka have doomed to destruction, can be. He, by the way, was gone kuda-that. But what, what was to do or make? Advise!

[Lerchik]

Natalia, be not excruciated, he of that is not necessary. Let itself solves the problems. Eventually, the wife with it or him all a life njankatsja cannot in fact, moreover pay its or his "pranks". And then, that you have advised, the decision was accepted by your girlfriend, and it was its or her decision.

[Melani]

Never to incur duties of the husband. Wished to be nezavisimoj-became independent, I hope though now you will understand me, than it comes to an end.

[Iriska]

Flight from army not an occasion to live off the wife and plodit her of children, and then also its or her money to spend... It is necessary to think, and then to do or make.

[Nika]

There is he of that that, or not, it is difficult to judge from. In any case, it is a choice of your girlfriend, instead of yours. If to you skazhut-jump from a window! Jump? And hardly who that will throw the husband only according to))) It is too personal choice.

[Masha]

Natalia, you too much on yourselves take:-)) hardly your girlfriend has divorced iz-for your advice or council.

[Rita]

Can be then when all will be settled, the girlfriend will regret about the accepted decision and will reproach you that you have pushed it or her. And can be thanks will tell or say. In such questions it is better to advise nothing. The girlfriend it is a pity, its or her husband - a goat, certainly. But a question complex or difficult. The destiny can turn anyhow. And all will show time. Muzhiks normal simply worth its weight in gold already steel.

[Natalia]

My darlings, thanks you, you have a little calmed me. But you were not quite cut. Game! It that, new man's defect? Yes I vidala and women, which in a casino prosazhivali. What to do or make, if the husband has lost? Not the drunkard, not the debauchee, so-so the cheapskate, but the passionate player. Well and how with it or this to struggle?

[Nika]

I think, that all that the person is not capable kontrolirovat-illness or disease, this status demands treatment, well and if the person does not want, violently for it or this do not treat. And fall.

[Melani]

It is dependence, same as a narcomania or alcohol. Often arises from inaction or from presyshchennosti. He that felt behind itself(himself) fault, is ready to correct a situation?
If felt, it is possible to apply this passion of the player there where it will bring success, thus to help or assist him to fulfil them the lost money.

[Sergey]

There is such wisdom: " in a life it is necessary to pay For all ". I think, it as is impossible by the way, approaches or suits in the given situation...

[Katjushka]

Gee whizz! Words are not present! Muzhichka it became a pity to her))) the Child of the father lishili-what misfortune! And what this daddy absolutely about the child not dumal-it is normal? And the husband) you did not think of the wife whom on the back hollow all pulls (both an apartment and the child? ZHalko-at pchelki! And to the girlfriend to help or assist it is necessary! Can be even money.

[Katjushka]

And on the bill of GAME... To play it is possible only when there are no debts.. Moreover for 15 years. And if he it has allowed itself(himself), he is simple mmudaak! The Justification of any dependence does not have a place! The Family at it or him should be in a head, instead of a casino and 3 thousand roubles. Besides on how much I know to the people working in organs, it is not desirable to appear as clients in similar institutions. e. It turns out, that he also in it or this has lagged behind.. And all here still repeat education... The maximum or supreme...

[Lerchik]

As they say, " not for that batka the son bival, that played, and that recouped ".

[Willi]

Natalia - well, as well as everywhere... Advice or councils by a principle " go and make " are harmful, first of all, for the adviser - it or him will declare or announce extreme then...
You it is constant here - recollect, how much reports when aunts toil with the muzhjami-alkashami-with fighters... Plough at three jobs, rastjat children (or pretend, that rastjat for to time at such life on them does not remain), clean or remove the house and prepare, and regret such here urodtsev... Yes, he the sick person if up to such has already finished badly... Here only to the child (infinite promises, scandals, tears, uhody-arrivals, absence of money) it is completely not necessary to see continuation of such histories...
Here only, I am afraid, that muzhichonka has not disappeared... And will soon appear and will start to complain to the girlfriend of a life and pomoshchi/salvages to demand...

[Elena]

Greetings to all! I, probably, have gone mad. I married, the husband like me, I like too like it or him, but I any amorous, whether chto-. Has met recently the old friend, there is he " me all life liked, and what I beautiful ". I have there and then fallen in love, two months went happy, the husband suffers, arranges analyses of flights, it was necessary to me to not see some time of the admirer - and attitudes or relations with the husband were adjusted, I like it or him, only I like already as the native and close person for whom always you worry and try to not cause a pain. But recently have again met my friend, he me already calls in marriage, well all such. I go as a silly woman abnormal, again enamoured! Here also that to me to do or make, to the admirer passion, with it or him cheerfully, comfortably, and with the husband a peace of mind and confidence. Where to move? Both that, and another speak, that like, and children want. Here also what?