ErnestaGekkel
30.08.2004, 19:14
Hello! I wish to share the problem and to ask for you advice or council. To me and my husband for 22 years. We are married 1 year. We have 8 monthly little son. My husband helps or assists me with all, carries out all my requests on the house and on care of the child. But there are 2 problems: the temperament of my husband differs from mine. I feel necessity of sex every day, he has enough once a week. So was vsegda-he such person. At me iz-for it or this the strain collects, I start to cling to it or him;them, to carp at words. He estestvennol states the discontent, I speak that all time noju. I explain to him, that I should be given more caress, hotjaby, elementary, to embrace and iron before a dream then I shall feel its or his love to me and I shall not be nyt. He speaks, that he the man and at it or him is not present need or requirement constantly to give me caress. For me the main thing in attitudes or relations is touches and mutual caress. He does not give it or this to me and considers or counts, that I think out all and that I have gone mad on sex. I ask simply me to embrace more often. I consider or count that love this display of tactile experiences, aon considers or counts what is it obsaljutno not important. I even have a desire to be realized where that on starone. And the second moment (as to me kazhetsja he follows from the first problem): when we look televizov or magazines and my husband suddenly speaks, that here at this I like a figure, and at this to like the face, I start to go mad simply during such moments. Mogj to slap a door and to leave in other room. The same with its or his last life - I am jealous terribly of former girl-friends. He can show me what nibud a photo and tell or say - " here this girl she model, we met her ". " And here this girl she in Vahtangova plays, we did not meet her, and simply we had a sex. " After my stages he speaks that has understood all, but then all repeats. He considers or counts what is it quite normally and I too can tell to him about the men, speaks, that he trusts me and does not doubt of my love and if I want that I can tell to him about the last life. At many my girlfriends similar problems, neuzhile the man's psychology is so distinct from ours, what with her women of the world are reconciled all? And more my husband justifies prostitution, and in general speaks what is it normally, especially elite prostitutes, he speaks, that if the woman beautiful and well is engaged in sex why her to not work as the elite prostitute. Though speaks, that itself never them polhovalsja. At me after such words nachanaetsja such depression, I at once start to consider or count that I am not sufficient beautiful (it still after he komentiruet women from the TV and magazines), that at me not a beautiful figure. Though I know, what is it not so. But here these all conversations my husband so underestimates my vanity and I start to seem to myself inutile. He speaks me all time " I you I like, you at me the most beautiful, but I shall always look at beautiful women and to receive cleanly aesthetic pleasure. " Horror. Unless so it is possible. I in it or this see only lust and low desires.!!!