Zdrastvujte, At me such problem, I am too self-confident, I can offend...

[Elena]

Zdrastvujte,
At me such problem, I am too self-confident, I can offend the liked person, not thinking, that to him is not pleasant, and here to him I speak, that he is simply right has no to offend me..... .vobshchem to suffer or bear me it is torture, I consider or count, what is always right, how to me to change?

[child]

First to think, then to speak. Always to put yourselves on a place of that person to which you think something to state, and prochuvstvat it " on yourselves ". Try to respond "in advance" mentally to the insult (present, have what is it told or said to you, and that you on it will respond, only not the insult in the answer, and arguments that offending is not right). Probably, it is written a little bit chaotically, but, I hope, you will understand.