Irina
22.08.2004, 12:15
Good afternoon!
Very much I wish to help or assist the girlfriend. She in full despair.
The situation is those - its or her son - the boy 14 ti - years grows in incomplete family (the father from mother have divorced when to the son was six years). At the father other family, mum till now is lonely. The boy likes the father, earlier often happened at his place, since recent time the father began to avoid these occurrings and calls. The boy has become isolated (can be, and at all in this occasion, something can, at school not so, but I pochemu-that am inclined to think, what exactly iz-for alienations of the father), in the whole days (when not at school) lays in front of the TV, does not go anywhere, despite all efforts of its or his mother to stir up (courses of game on a guitar, tourism, pool, section ajkido and so forth - all over again went, but it or him sufficed for a short while), friends at it or him are not present. But most, in my opinion, bad - he became aggressive in relation to mother, demands from it or her money (that she gets out at two jobs, but money all the same does not suffice), is hysterical, conducts conversations on the incompetence ( I silly, nobody likes me, at me never nothing will turn out ), often cries. She addressed to the psychotherapist, even it was possible to reduce to it or him;them the son. That to her there have told or said - I do not know, she does not like to speak on this subject. But nothing has changed. Please, prompt, that it is possible to make in a similar situation to mum, associates where to run and for what to catch
Very much I wish to help or assist the girlfriend. She in full despair.
The situation is those - its or her son - the boy 14 ti - years grows in incomplete family (the father from mother have divorced when to the son was six years). At the father other family, mum till now is lonely. The boy likes the father, earlier often happened at his place, since recent time the father began to avoid these occurrings and calls. The boy has become isolated (can be, and at all in this occasion, something can, at school not so, but I pochemu-that am inclined to think, what exactly iz-for alienations of the father), in the whole days (when not at school) lays in front of the TV, does not go anywhere, despite all efforts of its or his mother to stir up (courses of game on a guitar, tourism, pool, section ajkido and so forth - all over again went, but it or him sufficed for a short while), friends at it or him are not present. But most, in my opinion, bad - he became aggressive in relation to mother, demands from it or her money (that she gets out at two jobs, but money all the same does not suffice), is hysterical, conducts conversations on the incompetence ( I silly, nobody likes me, at me never nothing will turn out ), often cries. She addressed to the psychotherapist, even it was possible to reduce to it or him;them the son. That to her there have told or said - I do not know, she does not like to speak on this subject. But nothing has changed. Please, prompt, that it is possible to make in a similar situation to mum, associates where to run and for what to catch