Hello. My vital history likely pohleshche all others. Or about...

[DIANA]

Hello. My vital history likely pohleshche all others. Or simply I can not cope with a shock. I shall tell only about 1 stroke of bad luck (and them at once 3). I have lived 7 years with the husband. Before 3 years were friends. At us (is more correct now at me) remarkable 3 the daughter. We get divorced. Now we exchange kvartirishchu, soon we shall live separately. Though, and these or it 2.5 months I try to not see it or him. The matter is that only after 10 years of close acquaintance and confidence of its or his love, I have learned or have found out, that mine muzh-blue. Before some times there were suspicions, but also could not think... He always spoke, that ja-idiotka, myself I wind. Searched for the reason in itself. Did not find, nervous failures have begun, it is more on a daughter. But likely it was a limit and destiny me already has some times sticked with the face into the real facts. And now, when he znae, that I know, he at all does not deny and in ours with a daughter absence of the house, results or brings beloveds. He is healthy? I think, not so. And the liked daughter too is not become necessary. I cannot live with it or him, and I do not want, anything except for a nausea and nasty thing to it or him;them I do not test. And what with the child? She waits, misses. To deprive with its or her father completely? And how to me it to swallow? How to live? How to believe? The same 10 years of a life... Help or assist... For what such impacts of a life? Thanks...

[ksy]

Would be really less insulting, if he it is simple to other woman has left? And why you have solved that the daughter is not necessary? And why you consider or count that should deprive the daughter of the father? If blue that of the child is not liked or not by the person already? Well and to live with it or him you forces nobody and, to mine, in such situation even it is easier to remain in good relations. Think to him it was easy or light to understand that he blue? Usually it is excruciating enough potsess.

[Dan]

First of all, be not surprised that you did not see something in tovoem the husband earlier. All of us it is varied in due course. It also is a principal cause of divorces and vsecheskih family (and not only) problems. Simply be above all it or this. Accept it as the usual phenomenon so it will be easier. Ksy very much horoshe has told or said in this occasion.

[Fleur]

My girlfriend has got divorced from husband after the whole life lived together - years 20, it seems. He did not know, tomilsja, has found out, when the child finished school. Now they live separately, he - with the muzhik any, she concerns philosophically, he likes the child - in general, everyone are friends houses. She concerns to it or him;them with comprehension and pity "is not guilty". And the truth: it is not guilty. If your husband, nevertheless, married and the bisexual has got or started dite, he, more likely. To you from it or this certainly, not easier, but orientation if she, really, congenital, not an occasion " to search for witches ". For you this misfortune, and for it or him - as color of eyes and skins. However, if to not lead up to divorce, it is possible to try to find out, how much or as far as it is corrected or adjusted - and whether is corrected or adjusted. Address in conference "sexopathologist", there the efficient doctor, he will send you the test for the husband and will consult on a problem. Do not lose courage and do not take in head to deprive the daughter of the father. The homoeroticism at all does not contradict fatherly feelings. Do not project the problem on the attitude or relation of the husband to the daughter. Tests which we cannot sustain are not sent us. The husband, probably, very much liked you if has got or started family. Or, at least, fairly tried to correspond or meet. Forgive or excuse to him the shock. Most likely, he does not wish to get divorced. Try - that you lose. Talk to it or him. Descend or go to the sexologist. Also remember: those who are born on Monday, nothing is worse appeared in medium. Alternative of tolerance - fascism. Courage to you!

[Ninel]

Actually "homoeroticism" is congenital so your husband all the same was to the full unhappy with you, and it is not important to itself he ushul to the man or the woman. You were unhappy. Speak, that they good friends. And why you test hatred? It will pass or take place, there will be a pity, and the daughter let communicates with the father. I do not know, I would turn the given situation for the good of myself.

[Leka]

Do not deprive a daughter of the daddy, she likes it or him! As well as he it or her, believe. Save with it or him friendly attitudes or relations, it is the best output or exit. Hardly he has intentionally caused you a pain, itself suffers not less. But sex orientation at will to change very difficultly.