Darya, 25 years
04.08.2004, 04:36
Good afternoon, the doctor!
Please, give advice or council. The matter is that we with the civil husband live 3 years, all 6 years, that we together, until recently there was all well and cloudlessly, missed on each other even when on job left, in the evenings always together, joked, all job on the house did or made together, were simply more, than enamoured, were the present or true friends. But in February of this year I uzanala, that at it or him was addicting on the party or side in the last summer, but all has quickly ended (as he swore subsequently), I have decided to not pull down this case our attitudes or relations, have forgiven or excused and have forgotten. But with it or this has not ended, he became pochemu-that irritable, explaining to that gets tired at job, began to raise or increase on me a voice, and last week he has arranged to me the real scolding because I was late home and has not come to promised time. He began to shake me for grudki, it is raspingly pushing aside, crying out thus terrible things.... In family of my parents rukoprikladstva was never, in general the family violence is unacceptable for me and diko, in general, I shall be brief, I am disappointed in the husband, 5 days I live at parents, and he calls and asks to return. What to do or make? To forgive or excuse or leave? I know, what a root in something the friend, not in my delay, something occurs or happens in our attitudes or relations, but what? Whether it is necessary to rescue or save;salvage family if he has afforded such attitude or relation to the beloved? Thanks in advance for found time and advice or council.
Please, give advice or council. The matter is that we with the civil husband live 3 years, all 6 years, that we together, until recently there was all well and cloudlessly, missed on each other even when on job left, in the evenings always together, joked, all job on the house did or made together, were simply more, than enamoured, were the present or true friends. But in February of this year I uzanala, that at it or him was addicting on the party or side in the last summer, but all has quickly ended (as he swore subsequently), I have decided to not pull down this case our attitudes or relations, have forgiven or excused and have forgotten. But with it or this has not ended, he became pochemu-that irritable, explaining to that gets tired at job, began to raise or increase on me a voice, and last week he has arranged to me the real scolding because I was late home and has not come to promised time. He began to shake me for grudki, it is raspingly pushing aside, crying out thus terrible things.... In family of my parents rukoprikladstva was never, in general the family violence is unacceptable for me and diko, in general, I shall be brief, I am disappointed in the husband, 5 days I live at parents, and he calls and asks to return. What to do or make? To forgive or excuse or leave? I know, what a root in something the friend, not in my delay, something occurs or happens in our attitudes or relations, but what? Whether it is necessary to rescue or save;salvage family if he has afforded such attitude or relation to the beloved? Thanks in advance for found time and advice or council.