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@nn
24.07.2004, 00:02
Hello, prompt how to find common language with sverkrovju. We should live long enough time together, and we cannot normally communicate and living porozen. How to convince (or to not convince) the person who has got used that its or her opinion unique and correct (in family where the husband and 2 sons will argue nobody with the unique woman) not always should be the only thing. Or easier or simply to live shutting eyes to this "fine" disadvantage and to do or make all as you consider it necessary, looking thus it is devoted in eyes. To argue I is already tired, and the husband iz-for it or this very much is upset.

Svetlana Granin
24.07.2004, 16:55
Your mother-in-law to not alter any more. So try to not enter with her the conflict for calmness of the family. Under the family I have in view of you and vashchego the husband.

Julia
26.07.2004, 02:08
In due course you "will get used" to each other. Try to not enter the conflict that the husband to not afflict and nerves poberech uselessly. But also always it is not necessary to be meek or unrequited, concordant on all. Otherwise with your opinion absolutely will cease to be considered, you in fact all the same will be not against. But even to convince it is necessary to try softly, probably in due course the mother-in-law (and out of respect for the son, in particular) will reckon with your opinion, as with opinion of an equal in rights member of family.