Lena
04.07.2004, 19:45
JAn Mihajlovich, hello!
At me similar crisis, I do not know what to do or make,
I try to make a decision " to live or to not live ", in sense with the husband. Subconsciously, that is a head, I understand, that without it or him too it will be not sweet, and the child will go through such trauma hardly, especially in it or this to year goes to the first class. But together to live more is not present than forces. All has got. He a year does not earn (has opened the office, all waits for the light future) Last time for the request to execute house duties he began to declare that not the slave, and has the right to rest. To me to have to jump from a place on a place, in searches of the greater salary, for 4 years already 3 places has replaced (at it or him already there was a period of unemployment, year of one and a half house sat) That that that to be interrogated to make, the heap of nerves should be spent, will think up so much excuses if only to not do or make. I naturally undertake and I do or make itself. It at that that at me job (a structure of activity) is simple beshennaja, earlier 21 - 22 I home do not come, sometimes and on days off to have to work.
Tell or Say, with it or this it is possible to be reconciled, it is necessary as that to re-educate (we are familiar 12 years, 7 years in marriage or spoilage), or nevertheless it is not treated,
Or can still or even pridetsja spend the and so almost run low forces for tactical and psychological dodges (that is to search for the approach). CHe to do or make that in such situations?
Thankful in advance
At me similar crisis, I do not know what to do or make,
I try to make a decision " to live or to not live ", in sense with the husband. Subconsciously, that is a head, I understand, that without it or him too it will be not sweet, and the child will go through such trauma hardly, especially in it or this to year goes to the first class. But together to live more is not present than forces. All has got. He a year does not earn (has opened the office, all waits for the light future) Last time for the request to execute house duties he began to declare that not the slave, and has the right to rest. To me to have to jump from a place on a place, in searches of the greater salary, for 4 years already 3 places has replaced (at it or him already there was a period of unemployment, year of one and a half house sat) That that that to be interrogated to make, the heap of nerves should be spent, will think up so much excuses if only to not do or make. I naturally undertake and I do or make itself. It at that that at me job (a structure of activity) is simple beshennaja, earlier 21 - 22 I home do not come, sometimes and on days off to have to work.
Tell or Say, with it or this it is possible to be reconciled, it is necessary as that to re-educate (we are familiar 12 years, 7 years in marriage or spoilage), or nevertheless it is not treated,
Or can still or even pridetsja spend the and so almost run low forces for tactical and psychological dodges (that is to search for the approach). CHe to do or make that in such situations?
Thankful in advance