Hello the doctor! Psychologists often advise people to change in marriage or spoilage (kaki...

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Hello the doctor! Psychologists often advise people to change in marriage or spoilage (any features, habits, behaviour), if at them any problems in family. And I here have thought: if the woman will have still husbands (there can be she still many times will marry) to please each husband to change - so it is possible to lose itself also. Or I am wrong? Thanks.

[Bobrov A.E.]

Esteem "Dushechku" And. Chekhov's Item. There will find the answer. Changing, even so it is grotesque, as the heroine of this story, in essence she did not vary. Perhaps, in it or this and all humour of the history described by Chekhov. So your fears - are groundless. When psychologists such advise something, it is a question first of all of search of compromises, instead of refusal of.