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Olja
14.06.2004, 16:29
Hello. Tell or say, whether there is in general a female friendship? I have five enough close girlfriends, I communicate with someone in institute, with someone I go to have a rest, we about each other much, including know private life. And now I have reflected, whether and girlfriends they to me if one constantly tells nonexistent histories about the admirers who actually are not present, to her soul open, and she nods as a token of comprehension and gives out the next portion of fairy tales. Another has replaced five lovers for a month, it not especially touched or tampered with me, while she did not begin to show excessive attention to my young man, the third recently has lost the guy and now any mention of my friend perceives with tragichno-an envious look, to me that it or him to leave it is necessary, that to her it was easier. And all time wishes to learn, as it is necessary itself to a message with men though in this business the layman, and that she constantly speaks that it is necessary to extort from muzhiks of money that all of them change, already razdrozhaet is intolerable. The fourth on all to spit, any even the smallest request perceives as though ask in a duty or debt one million dollars, never will congratulate on one holiday, will not come to see, when you are or be ill or sick, a nature at it or her such and the attitude or relation to all identical. And fifth me yesterday "has simply killed". I began to suspect the young man of change, and on an empty place about what now very much I regret, but yesterday have wound myself and allow to call to the girl-friend, it would be desirable in general support, and has received hundred reasons, that he to me really changes. On my words, that the guy on arms or hand wears me and with all helps or assists, she has told or said, that he most likely feels the fault and tries to smooth down it or her, that he speaks, that it or him in sex, and in all all arranges, the girlfriend has told or said, that else he would speak, that something does not arrange it or him, and all in such spirit. He can to me and really changes, but she in fact does not know on 100 % so what for to do or make to me painfully. I cannot respond a harm to a harm, and I do not want, but after dialogue I feel awfully, is direct becomes insulting. My friend speaks, that all of them envy, because one does not have constant good young man about what all of them speak time and that very much upsets them. But and how friendship, where pleasure for achievements of another?

Nika
15.06.2004, 09:15
The true friendship is certainly, but not so it is a lot of it or her. Time will show, who remains with you and whom that the life will reject. And envy too in fact suffices a rage!? Be pleased to that at you is!

LANA
17.06.2004, 01:01
I think, that five girlfriends it is a lot of. .tem more if they really envy you... At me too five good friends, but the present or true girlfriend one though she on a vital situation should me envy, but she does not do or make it or this, but only is pleased sincerely for me and my family..

Volodja
20.06.2004, 16:09
Friends do not envy!!! If they the present or true FRIENDS

___
20.06.2004, 23:33
Here to you please - a bright picture of a subject which here recently discussed - " Dushevnost Russian people ". Any pleasure for your successes of the girlfriend will not test, and do not wait. More likely on the contrary, will try to destroy your happiness and to sow in your soul of doubt. Your friend to the rights is all banal envy. A true friendship as well as the present or true love, a unusual occurrence. It is possible to disperse, certainly, malicious girl-friends but then with whom to communicate? Try to not open it or him the soul and not posveshchat them in a detail of your private life, to not discuss with them a problem in your attitudes or relations with the young man. My girl-friend has acquainted me with my husband and when has learned or has found out about our wedding forthcoming was enraged and began to sling mud at it or him. Ess-but, she to me any more the girlfriend.

Nika
23.06.2004, 21:33
To be friends it is necessary to be able, it too in fact not is given to everyone! And to begin it is necessary first of all from itself. Here your girlfriend lost liked... I understand, you in ssoej love, are shone by happiness, but series are a pain! Also it is just necessary to support or maintain the person, and to not admire at her with the love, can in general about men with her not talk, distract. And with all others, the approach if certainly they for you that that mean. In fact it is easy or light skazat-they envy! Can and so, and you give them love, and she will respond. Understand our life not bezoblochna and to you support can be demanded, we live among people, means it is necessary to search for compromises!

tusja
24.06.2004, 06:18
The friendship happens! I have 4 girlfriends with whom we share also ups and downs, help or assist each other not only in words. I never noticed envy from their party or side, on the contrary, they always are sincerely pleased for me. But also bad examples too are: the girlfriend with whom we hundred leit are familiar also which I considered or counted as the closest, has denied assistance to me a difficult minute and in general began to communicate with me, only if something from me is necessary for her. I think what to quarrel with your girlfriends it is not necessary, necessary to communicate simply with them less frankly.

Olga
27.06.2004, 21:13
And you? You that you have made IT or HIM good?

marusja
28.06.2004, 10:34
Nika, I doubt that such girlfriends can support. And more, not always people respond to love and respond, unfortunately. The same as not all seeds ascend, and in fact the sun gives heat and light to all.

Lera
01.07.2004, 07:28
Whether and there is a life on Mars?

Nika
02.07.2004, 17:14
By way of friendship, on a miscellaneous, all happens, as well as in all rest. I know on the example, close girlfriends three, and only one has appeared rather recently, she is the wife of my brother. The others " from the childhood ". With them it is easy or light, much and to speak it is not necessary. And with the years at us already the zamorochek so many that to approach with whom that, it is very difficult! Whether so it is necessary to throw what is? People vary both in the best, and in the inferior party or side, girlfriends too will change, can they and now not so are bad, simply young, in the ambitions! If at the person it is so much girlfriends and all bad, it does not speak you what in itself(himself) he should search for the reason?! And friends such what we choose! P. S! To me starts to seem, what you from any subject try to arrange dialogue with me? I Hope, what is it not continuation of an old subject! Success.

WITH
03.07.2004, 03:54
Nika, you can here the brightest and clever? Well why all seems to you prosecution? Including mine?

Emotion
05.07.2004, 17:02
Certainly, the female friendship is. At me two such girlfriends. One truth, now in other city, but another to me has completely replaced it or her. We also are friends more than ten years. That present or true girlfriend who does not apply for yours the man, does not try to beat off and spin an intrigue. There was a case, we with my first girlfriend have arrived to work in a new casino abroad and to us different men have liked. But sluchiloch so, that what has liked her, began to look after me and on the contrary. We is simple posmejalis above it or this and began to meet in such rasklade. Was not jealousy envy. Never I shall forget, as we had a rest on seacoast, she went with morozhennym which it or her was bought or purchased by what has liked me and artfully glanced in my party or side as what has liked her pounded or triturated me a cream from sunburn... We simply smiled each other, our friendship was above. Such examples of thousand when we could check up each other concerning men. I believe it or her as to myself. The second girlfriend now with me both in a trouble and in pleasure, I adore it or her and sincerely I wish good luck.