Good afternoon! At me such problem: half a year back I had a pregnancy...

[Lina]

Good afternoon! At me such problem: half a year back I had a pregnancy, the husband was very much pleased, experienced, there was an abortion. Too very much experienced. And here now I have again become pregnant, despite of very bad forecasts in occasion of the future beremennostej. To tell the truth, for me it was neozhidanostju, but also radosnoj unexpectedness. The husband has a child from first marriage - 13 years. When I have informed the husband about happened, he has told or said, that how much or as far as he was for the child last time, so he against in this case. Has told or said. That to me lutshe to make abortion, will well be treated, and then. Because the abortion can there will be and in 6 months, etc. to Me 32 years and I very much want the kid, but he can be right? Or it is excuses - the person simply does not want the responsibility? At me there is nobody me to help or assist, except for it or him. Now at me good, highly paid job and having lost it or her it is nobody me will be nadejatsja, except for it or him. Simply tear apart me now contradictions. How to be?

[LEDI SEX]

Lina, to me too all pregnancy doctors "put" threat of an abortion, but the child was born in time, is exact on US. Therefore, that you are "advised" by the husband, to perceive it is not necessary, for this purpose there are good doctors and furthermore having the husband and highly paid job, it is possible and to get the personal doctor who will hold all your pregnancy under the control! The main thing to not worry, keep a diet and on a regular basis to be surveyed (analyses...). And a choice between career and a birth malysha-business of everyone, but believe, to one another does not stir or prevent, and in general, do or make that prompts heart, " for the husband hope, but also itself not ploshaj "! Success

[JUlka]

In 32 years to make abortion of good intentions... With greater or big desire to have children then... As strange your husband of conducts that. If he likes you and the child, should preserve, instead of sign a verdict. Why to not try or taste? Probably he has simply changed the mind on the bill of children. The wife with the child - slightly not that that simply wife (moreover and with good job.) To solve certainly to you but if want children - do not do or make abortion. Try to talk to it or him what exactly so strains it or him. Success

[Glashka]

Yes anything strange! The husband simply very much experiences and is afraid after the first unsuccessful outcome! Men all takie-he easier or simply has not departed still. You think, to him it was simple all this to go through? They are women as cats, everyone will transfer or carry, and muzhichki, inherently trusovaty. And you needed to wait and receive medical treatment a little. Abortions on an empty place does not happen. Now, certainly, nzhno to try to give birth, but in fact how to be protected it is necessary!!!

[The anonym]

Hello, Lina! It seems to Me, that it is necessary for you to talk in a warm domestic surroundings frankly to your spouse, to tell about the desires, dreams and doubts. After that, he should be uttered, and you as the wise woman try to understand, that it or him disturbs actually. Last word always for you! You already have a child, he alive, at it or him knocks already serdechko and if you wish it or him to see, wish it or him to take on arms or hand that do not doubt, and believe in happy end and a fast occurring with your kid! I sincerely wish your of good luck, patiences

[Another JUlka]

I have a girl-friend to her of 36 years one year ago she has given birth to a daughter too before it or this there were abortions. And practically all pregnancy to her should be lain - has lain, has given birth, it is now happy madly. So if there is 1 chance from 100 that all will turn out - it is necessary to use it or him. And job not the wolf))) and she can will terminate and without the child. The child is that who remains for ever. Do not choose it incomparably... I wish good luck!

[Lina]

Thanks everyone who has responded to my message.
At me the husband - the constant player in a casino. It simply pathology. For a night some or a little bit one thousand dol can leave. Which absolutely would not be superfluous in family. Here and the day before yesterday I pulled out it or him therefrom. Result - the bleeding has opened. The child will be saved, will not be saved - one god knows. I lay down in hospital. So while. Thanks. Success all of you!!!!