Jeanne
01.06.2004, 13:39
Hello!
I am afraid, by own strength this problem to me to solve not under force, therefore has decided to address to you. My husband constantly spends time behind a computer. At once after a supper sits down computer games - and does not go to bed till two nights.
From here two problems: vo-the first, he does not get enough sleep, t. To. Rises in 7 mornings. Vo-the second, he does not pay to me any attention. And if I try to distract it or him from a computer, he awfully is angry, does or makes such unfortunate kind, as though I
It or Him has got the harassments, and all the same continues to sit at it or him. When I try to find out, why he so is keen by a computer, speaks, that games help or assist him to relax and distract from ideas on job (he the principal). I
All I understand, but mne-that what to do or make? We are married only two years - and he has already lost to me any interest. What will be further?!
Business becomes complicated that we one year ago have moved to other city, and now we is very far from native and friends. And those new friends and colleagues who have appeared for this time, all the same cannot replace former friends. I have lost a habitual circle of dialogue, and now, similar, began to show more demands
To the husband to demand it is more than attention. If earlier my attention dispersed on girlfriends, mum, the daddy, the sister, and the addicting of the husband for a computer irritated me, but did not kill, now the computer became for me the most important contender for
Attention of the beloved. And he does not try to understand me at all! In fact it was its or his initiative - to leave, I have supported or maintained it or him, in hope, that we become even closer each other in city where we know nobody. Also what? We keep away more and more and more... I am am visited or attended even more often with ideas on divorce, but I very much like the husband and
I do not wish it or him to lose. How to force it or him to pay to me attention?
I shall be very grateful, if will help or assist me to understand this situation confused for me.
Yes, if it will help or assist business, him 31 year, me 23.
I am afraid, by own strength this problem to me to solve not under force, therefore has decided to address to you. My husband constantly spends time behind a computer. At once after a supper sits down computer games - and does not go to bed till two nights.
From here two problems: vo-the first, he does not get enough sleep, t. To. Rises in 7 mornings. Vo-the second, he does not pay to me any attention. And if I try to distract it or him from a computer, he awfully is angry, does or makes such unfortunate kind, as though I
It or Him has got the harassments, and all the same continues to sit at it or him. When I try to find out, why he so is keen by a computer, speaks, that games help or assist him to relax and distract from ideas on job (he the principal). I
All I understand, but mne-that what to do or make? We are married only two years - and he has already lost to me any interest. What will be further?!
Business becomes complicated that we one year ago have moved to other city, and now we is very far from native and friends. And those new friends and colleagues who have appeared for this time, all the same cannot replace former friends. I have lost a habitual circle of dialogue, and now, similar, began to show more demands
To the husband to demand it is more than attention. If earlier my attention dispersed on girlfriends, mum, the daddy, the sister, and the addicting of the husband for a computer irritated me, but did not kill, now the computer became for me the most important contender for
Attention of the beloved. And he does not try to understand me at all! In fact it was its or his initiative - to leave, I have supported or maintained it or him, in hope, that we become even closer each other in city where we know nobody. Also what? We keep away more and more and more... I am am visited or attended even more often with ideas on divorce, but I very much like the husband and
I do not wish it or him to lose. How to force it or him to pay to me attention?
I shall be very grateful, if will help or assist me to understand this situation confused for me.
Yes, if it will help or assist business, him 31 year, me 23.