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Hello. For today to me 34 years, but I am afraid of men iz-that in the childhood I all time was teased by boys because I was too high and too thick. Now I a little polnovata, but look or appear not bad, however the complex has remained. How to me of it or this will get rid?
Dear Tatyana! I more recently had a similar problem but because I all life was sluggish, too phlegmatic. I tried not uchavstvovat in competitions at lessons of physical culture, in other outdoor games, t. To. I knew, that I can bring the command and then with me my schoolmates will be necessarily dissatisfied... Tak-slowly all life I think:-))) Vobshchem a full phlegm!:-) but about five years ago I could get rid of a complex in occasion of a sluggishness of movements, simply having accepted and having grown fond of myself it is even more. Now I consider or count this feature as a highlight, charm - such " the floating lady "!:-))) But here completely to get rid of that constraint, that slowly I think I can not yet Still I complex iz-for it or this in public, at job more a few... Sometimes I am afraid to be arranged on other job, t. To. I think: and suddenly I to these or it;this shall not like the heads and God forbid tormoznutosti he to me will tell or say about mine! But for this summer I have spent such job above myself, that now for me is not too intolerable to hear: " Well and a brake! " And all owing to that has simply refused self-flagellation and on twenty times a day now to myself I speak: " I accept myself such what I am! " And " I like myself! ". Know, Tatyana, I think, that all our complexes from insufficient love to. Esli-psychologists and parents knew on how much important to explain to children that it is necessary to like itself not only for something, but also is simple so then and " disgusting utjat " menshe-at schools would be! In fact then the child starts itself to appreciate and respect more! Success to you and love!
Thanks, Valeri. You are right. Just parents though liked me, but never spoke me, that I beautiful or clever, always doubted of my abilities. It is necessary to me to get out of the complexes.
Bobrov A.E.
08.06.2004, 13:45
If these experiences stir or prevent till now, that, I think, there are bases to seem to the psychotherapist. Usually such status kvalifitsiuetsja as a selective social phobia.
Galina - Valeri.
09.06.2004, 06:06
1) Excuse, that I interfere: whether it with you we talked to the AUTHOR?
2) Well you directly my mirror reflection! Too I suffer from the "tugodumija"... Also I try to act the same as you. Helps or assists.
Yes Galina, it I also is!:-))) it is very glad, what not I one such on light!:-)
To Galina. And for a long time at you this or thus most "tugodumie"? Got or since the childhood? As whom work, if not a secret? If want, write on a mail: orelve@mail. ru. I shall be glad!
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