We with the husband live already 7 oh year, after a birth of the second child affinity pra...

[Liza]

We with the husband live already 7 oh year, after a birth of the second child the affinity has practically stopped, occasionally, the husband is sometimes washed down (in a week up to 5 ti days pjanki), to talk on intimal subject with me he refuses, tries to bypass this question.
I understand, that at it or him oslablo libido, that there are problems with health, but all of them reshimy. Help or assist prisilogicheski to find the necessary cord of dialogue or motivation for the reference or manipulation to the psychiatrist or the psychologist.
Thanks.

[Tolokonin A.O.]

Dear Liza!
That psychotherapeutic job can be successful only under condition of desire of the patient, he should want it or this. Try to cause or call it or him on frank conversation by creation of a unusual situation. Descend or go together in restaurant, go to a rest house, would create to him conditions in which to him was comfortably, well and not as you have usually got used to spend leisure. Sometimes switching of a situation helps or assists to solve problems with a potency so also the doctor can not be necessary. Success!

[child]

Here to you motivation. Psychologists know such phenomenon when (it can happen both after 1, and after 2 children), the husband grows cold, and it is connected with its or his subconscious change of perception of the wife, she turns from the sex purpose to Mother. Such it is very widespread. The woman is as though transformed to other essence, for example, the breast ceases to contact sex but only with a maternity, the woman becomes predicted, very borrowed or occupied, value or meaning;importance of "extraction" and an acuteness of sensations of possession her or it loses dies away. It is a direct direction to the marriage psychologist or the sexologist.