The doctor, prompt, as to me to be. I meet the young man, I fall in love, but...

[Svetlana, 23 years]

The doctor, prompt, as to me to be. I meet the young man, I fall in love, but when he wants more close relations, I start to avoid it or him and in any degree even to hate. For me it is more important, that the man was first of all the friend, and already then the lover. So was already many times and and nogda it seems to me, what is it will repeat again and again. What to do or make?

[Tolokonin A.O.]

Dear Light!
Avoidances of close relations speaks, that you have received psihotravmu or or - to the inheritance from mum. The help of the psychotherapist, the sexologist or the psychologist is necessary. The psychoanalysis will solve your problem.
If live in Moscow, can write on mine E_mail
tolokonin@mtu-net. ru