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Tatyana and Alexey
27.05.2004, 22:41
Hello. At us very much a greater or big problem with the son. In 9 years to him have unsuccessfully made a circumcision. Now at it or him the skin hangs down slices and delivers to him inconveniences, especially this problem with the years has become aggravated. Earlier too was, but not so it is appreciable. He at all did not begin to go to a bath. Now to him about 20 years. Recently has come from army. At it or him terrible depression though in army all like was normal, especially did not scoff. But the most important, he nothing wishes to speak on this subject with us, hesitates. To the doctor to go categorically refuses. Tried to consult on the INTERNET, but everywhere received the answer, that the son should seem to the urologist, in absentia a problem to not solve. And he categorically does not wish to go there. Speaks, that "is not obliged", I "shall not go", " to that what business ", etc. Force in 20 years of the person you will not allocate or remove. Therefore for us one vyhod-to address to the psychologist. At us a question: how to persuade the son to descend or go to the doctor? How to persuade it or him on operation? How to be, if he one hesitates to go to the doctor? Can, to you will seem trannym, that we so shiver above the adult son, but we are not indifferent to its or his destiny. Help or assist advice or council, very much we ask. In advance thanks.

Tolokonin A.O.
30.05.2004, 05:20
While he will not make this decision and others of anything seryoznogo and necessary will not occur or happen in its or his life! Leave the guy alone, let it for it or him the complex or difficult decision, but to accept it or him he should itself, without podtalkivany! Understand, and then explain to him, that he already adult and to solve all should itself!!!! "Jolting" above its or his problems does or makes its or his finally unable by an adult life and generates a heap not the necessary conflicts between you!