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Valentine
17.05.2004, 03:48
Hello, the dear doctor!
Help or Assist, please, advice or council how to behave with the person whom he considers or counts, that "center of the universe", that everyone should be arranged under it or him, that people should not have any other interests except for it or him. The most terrible what to wave away from this person there is no opportunity: he lives under one roof, for a year has transferred or carried operations on a struma and on an oncotomy on a stomach, fracture shejki femurs. Left, have helped or assisted to recover, and now at all such devastation in soul or douche, a status close to nervous failure, interest to a life was gone. In fact this person constantly accuses of an ingratitude, constantly teaches, constantly calls for conscience, ostensibly do not reckon with its or his interests. Its or his interests are reduced to that everyone were at it or him in maids: to dial the number of phone, bring - carry (itself moves even without a rod), include or switch on - switch off the TV, etc.
Job tried to speak, that at us, that at us the life, that whenever possible - do not distract people, do not incite anybody against itself - reaction one - heartless, ungrateful or thankless we people. And we 5 person (two children) ask advice or council from you what to do or make? To suffer or bear? But already there are no forces. Even absolutely another's people are involved in its or his problems. And in any way this person will not understand, that at other people of the problems suffices, that everyone suffer or bear it or him only for the sake of respect. Help or assist! Thanks!

Valeri
18.05.2004, 19:11
Concern to it or him;them as to the small child and pay to it or him attention less. I think, what is it a unique output or exit for today (if certainly anywhere this person cannot be put). And "stenochku" between it or him and you it is obligatory. Success!

Bobrov A.E.
20.05.2004, 06:19
If respect for the relative (probably, to the father?) still remains, try to suffer. To you correctly advises Valeri, to concern to it or him;them as to the child. All its or his orders to carry out does not follow, but "to show" obedience sometimes it is useful. And more. It will be useful for you to realize, that such forms of behaviour (a reactive narcissism) it is usual porozhdeny strong pavor before mors. And to that it is not fated to know, how he will lead itself(himself) in a similar situation.