Roxy
02.05.2004, 16:45
Greetings, is very necessary advice or council, as itself to a message. The matter is that I already cannot normally talk to mother at all. At us very intense attitudes or relations in spite of the fact that I live separately. For this reason I also have left the house, t. To. There military actions already began. My mum - the person imperous, she considers or counts, that all should be only how she speaks and not differently. When we lived together, she is constant to me climbed with different questions, cavils, etc. When I had a young man, he was " any not such " when we have left - there was, that I - " a silly woman, have lost such guy, I shall remain now for ever one ", etc. I had to listen to It not once, and within 6 months since we have left. The further, the worse. Each days off spoke me - " that you sit on a sofa, it is necessary to go the husband to search!!!!! " From this phrase me it is simple already toshnit. Mother has beaten off at me desire in general with someone to meet, from words "groom", "husband" me already shakes. It only one of the parties or sides, t. To. Cavils were in all. Girlfriends of my all she named prostitutes (not clearly why in general) when I went kuda-that with my fellow workers, she spoke - " there is nothing to go with them, at them the families, search to itself kogo-for a string, there is nothing married to humour " as though I with them sleep or not clearly that I do or make!!!!!!
When I remained to spend the night at my was or former bojfrenda, me named "drawsheet" and "shalavoj", and these words to me were spoken by NATIVE MUM!!!!!!!!
I have certainly seen the decision of a problem that it is necessary to be taken up more quickly. Now I live separately, but she on 100 times calls to me on job, on cellular, constantly something asks, asks. When I hear its or her voice in phone, at me intonation sharply varies, I start to be rude to her, sharply to respond. Its or her requests I automatically respond to all - was not present, it occurs or happens already purely or cleanly by inertia. Even my fellow workers have noticed, that I talk to all well, and sharply I vary, when mother calls.
I know, you to me now will tell or say - as so, it in fact mum, you except for it or her are necessary to nobody, etc. But I ask to understand, that she for last year has strained or tormented me nerves simply completely, I simply do not wish to see and hear its or her any time, to tell or say to her that did not call - I can not, vse-taki it not extraneous tetenka. But I want, that she has left me alone and did not climb sosvoimi foolish advice or councils, questions, etc. How to learn to be terpimee, to keep silent once again, I cannot...
When I remained to spend the night at my was or former bojfrenda, me named "drawsheet" and "shalavoj", and these words to me were spoken by NATIVE MUM!!!!!!!!
I have certainly seen the decision of a problem that it is necessary to be taken up more quickly. Now I live separately, but she on 100 times calls to me on job, on cellular, constantly something asks, asks. When I hear its or her voice in phone, at me intonation sharply varies, I start to be rude to her, sharply to respond. Its or her requests I automatically respond to all - was not present, it occurs or happens already purely or cleanly by inertia. Even my fellow workers have noticed, that I talk to all well, and sharply I vary, when mother calls.
I know, you to me now will tell or say - as so, it in fact mum, you except for it or her are necessary to nobody, etc. But I ask to understand, that she for last year has strained or tormented me nerves simply completely, I simply do not wish to see and hear its or her any time, to tell or say to her that did not call - I can not, vse-taki it not extraneous tetenka. But I want, that she has left me alone and did not climb sosvoimi foolish advice or councils, questions, etc. How to learn to be terpimee, to keep silent once again, I cannot...