Problem with a pot

[oksanych]

Hello. To a daughter 4 years and till now kakaet in trousers only costing or standing (why to her so it is more convenient???) Constipations and are not present cracks of a proctal or an anal aperture. At night-if (summer) is hot, sleeps till the morning dry, as soon as is more cool (cold summer and all the rests of the time of year) - wet bed. In the afternoon pisaet that in trousers, in a pot (there is that podsikivaet the greater or big pool). It does not depend on its or her employment by toys. Psychomotor development in norm or rate. Kesarenok (can because of it or this late became has a seat and to creep - in 9 months, has gone itself in 1,2). Not more silly other children, with mentality by way of, any bzikov are not present (there are everyones of -type to scatter toys, to draw in magazine and t p, but according to age). On a question: where it is necessary to write and kakat - quite clearly responds - in a pot and when it you will do or make - responds-then... The Truth timid and timid: asks the handle on a hill, in the lift, is afraid of dogs, darkness. But of a problem not because of it or this, t to a pot is not afraid. Can is with me in a room, a pot before a nose - and all to make in trousers. If you will remind about gorshke-can easy sit down, and happens and speaks - I do not want, and in a minute-pool. But constantly to remind her is too not to chemu-itself should think in fact. Already changed pots, tried or tasted on a toilet bowl, abused, did not react in any way and so forth - it is useless. It or she, surprisingly, does not have desire to do or make all most - asks to feed, change clothes and t p, force samu-at once moaning and tears, it is possible only arrangements of type: put on more quickly, you are waited by the girl-friend, or eat itself a porridge I-shall give a sweet then works and bystenko all does or makes, and with a pot so it is impossible. To a garden will go since September. What delat-in fact children will ridicule? (if about an emiction though as that turns out, but is far not always with kakanem in general trouble - in any way on pot to not persuade and violently it is impossible). On what doctors to go, on all podrjad-the neurologist (a dismaturity of nervous system?), osteopat (something can not by way of with lumbar vertebra or vertebrae?, the psychologist (a problem cleanly psychological?)...??? To us 4 years!!! Only do not advise psychiatrists (tranquilizers I shall not stuff it or her).

[shatunova]

Hello, a problem, dejtsvitelno, complex or difficult, the reasons can be different.
It is obvious, that your daughter does not wish to grow, become is more adult. It is necessary to understand the reason of such behaviour. It becomes complicated still presence of pavors, unwillingness to be separated from you.
How passed or took place schooling to a pot, at what age who accustomed?
Whether there is a second child in family?
What attitudes or relations with the father at the daughter?
Whether the daughter separately from you sleeps or sometimes gets over in your bed?
Whether there were partings till 2th years with you.
But it is better to address to the psychologist, the problem has psychological character.