Marina
27.08.2004, 03:45
Hello! The dear doctor, very much I ask you to help or assist us correctly to enter very delicate situation (if it is possible so to be expressed). To my son now 3 months. At it or him the hypospadias, and is necessary to him operation. I know about it or this only and the husband. At the husband mother very much not sderzhanna on tongue, however, the father - too. If they about it or this learn or find out - will know all our small small town (it precisely therefore as they always tell about the family all details: who than more and who as is treated. We already very much for a long time hide from them a status of ours with the husband of health). The most important that I very much worry that the boy did not have a complex in occasion of this pathology. Same vsyo-taki not ears of patients, and not on them operation... And children, they severe enough if who will know - on it or him a finger will show. Operation should pass or take place in Moscow, time it will borrow or occupy month. I at all do not represent as it is possible to hide it from my fathers-in-law. How to me to save my boy from spiritual wounds at later age? I even would like, that he would not know, that at it or him it was (specially operation have agreed to make till the moment of a self-consciousness). I very much ask you, advise me something. Relatives who could "cover" us with the husband (to tell or say, that to them have gone for a month) at us are not present. I simply do not know what to do or make. Day without a break I think of it or this. I shall be very grateful to you for the answer. Thanks.