Hello the doctor! To my son 2 years of 9 months. Was born: weight - 4100, ro...

[Marina]

Hello the doctor!
To my son 2 years of 9 months. Was born: weight - 4100, body height - 54 sm, cesarean. "Large enough" head, but within the limits of honey. Norms or rates (at us in family at all large heads). US and an echogram of a brain did not do or make. Slept easy, has gone itself to 1 year, mum, the daddy, the woman - in 1, 5 years, has started talking phrases - in 2, 5 years (when has gone in sadik), now - knows all letters and digits up to five. Disturbs some moments:
1. The Child is very restless also very obstinate. Attempts to learn to something or to show as correctly to do or make something come to an end usually with anything. Or - mum, I , and then - mum, in any way , then again - I or all throws, or a boring (hysterics).
How in the child to try to bring up assiduity? How to bring these hysterics to nothing? How to alter obstinacy in purposefulness?
2. In family it is a lot of to people: babushki-2, the grandfather, mum, the daddy. The child is brought up by all, especially, the DADDY (he is afraid of it or him) and mum. As iz-for obstinacies much is done or made not so, often there is all: and cries, and shlepane, and punishment. Awful hysterics on an empty place recently have become frequent! If what not so: leave, leave , shouts as if remove or take out a skin, jumps on one place or falls on a floor (if to not enter into a room, the hysterics can be prolonged 30 minutes). If to take on arms or hand - starts to coil. No words, arrangements, threats, etc. help or assist, except for as now to the daddy I shall call or the daddy goes - there and then silence on seconds. Neither from that nor from this in quiet conversation can start to shout or speak on the raised or increased tone. In a dream after quarrel can sometimes cry out: I , "leave", it "is impossible". Thus at all the child is not deprived by caress and attention!
What can you advise here? How to bring up it or him WITHOUT punishments??? Whether there are any receptions? To what experts and WHERE you will advise to address? Whether it is necessary? Whether it is necessary to pass or take place inspection?
VERY MUCH I ASK YOU, HELP or ASSIST PLEASE!!!
Yours faithfully, Marina.

[Pisarenko N.A.]

Have not quite successfully entered into the age crisis period. Here the more try to bring the child round pavor of punishment, discipline, etc., the worse result. And in due course the child ceases to perceive simply something or something else, and the vicious circle turns out. Badly that in due course this status passes in more serious forms of disturbances, less sharp sometimes, but breaking normal development.
To address to psychologists. If business is has reached or cunning regular hysterics, it is better to consult internally, as and so d/with at this age - sufficient stress for the child. It is meaningful to the first prokonsultirvatsja to you separately, t. To. It is a problem not so much the child, how much families.

[Masha]

Forgive or Excuse, that I interfere, I not the doctor. But why
To not begin with the neuropathologist (you not casually write, that did not do or make US and so forth). Simply I with the son had a similar situation.