Hello! Prompt how better to disaccustom please 1. 5 from gru...

[tanja]

Hello! Prompt how better to disaccustom please 1. 5 to a breast? Wakes up some times at night, and sleeps normally in the afternoon. Appetite bad. There is an impression that is full only thoracal milk. Hardly what not on her heart-rendingly squeals. At insults (has fallen, have strongly struck...) it is fast uspakaivaetsja only at a breast.

[Pisarenko N.A.]

Such displays indirectly testify to excessive symbiotic communication or connection between you and the girl, it is possible to judge the reasons of such position only, knowing it is enough about you and about the child, its or his early months of a life. To disaccustom - t. e. Violently to tear off - at you hardly it will turn out, she will find other way in any case to adhere you. Try to be adjusted or be set up for the beginning internally on the termination or discontinuance of thoracal feeding, thus give her freedom, dialogue during day more.

[tanja]

Dear Natalia Aleksandrovna! Explain please, what such excessive symbiotic communication or connection, and whether it is bad for the child? In a room of the healthy child speak, that feeding is not forbidden up to 2 h years and more and if wish to disaccustom it is necessary to leave for some days. It seems to me not correctly and I have absolutely got confused, that is good and that is bad. And it or she has enough freedom. We walk much and we communicate. There is a senior brother of 11 years.

[Pisarenko N.A.]

It when the child is not ready to be separated gradually from mum and to develop independently, and requires its or her constant presence and indefatigable for a second of emotional communication or connection. About 2 years... This or thus and in itself is bad (see above), and to leave - the most bad, that it is possible to make. Can, the truth you while are not ready to release or let off it or her? It in fact the second child, also try to be guided already not by another's opinions, and on the sensations and desires.

[tanja]

Many thanks