Our daughter (3), the only child in family (mum + the daddy), very much vpechat...

[asija]

Our daughter (3), the only child in family (mum + the daddy), very impressionable, emotional, active, mobile, curious. Goes to a kindergarten from a day nursery. In a garden it is interesting to her, friends are, sleeps and eats there well. Disturbs me here that, she comes into group, as queen!?, it is proud, without a smile, and even when children with pleasure rush to her, discharges their arm or hand, it is necessary for her, that it or her vsterili with honour!?, that the tutor has personally paid to it or her attention, and if, God forbid, the tutor pohvalit at this time other child everything, is tragedy. What to do or make, what words to pick up how to explain?
Thanks.

[Pisarenko N.A.]

See at home, as well as for what it or her praise (in an ideal - easier that she at you is, without conditions). Whether parents each other as show love to each other itd praise. Most likely, here not pride, and disturbance of dialogue, a disadvantage of attention.

[asija]

Many thanks for the answer. Similar, that we, parents, not the sample of dialogue for our child. So it turns out, that we practically do not communicate at the child: in the morning when the daddy still sleeps, the daughter leaves in sadik, and in the evening he often comes, when the child already sleeps. And when the daddy comes early he "is tired, borrowed" or occupied". Dialogue is shown to zero. Necessarily I shall show the daddy your comment. Once again thanks.