Julia, SPb
17.06.2004, 22:52
Hello, to the child 3. 1 mes, at dialogue with another's it is closed, that has started to enter the communications to him the minimum 15 - 30 minutes is required, depends on the person. At dialogue with doctors does not wish anything to do or make that ask it or him. A problem that having communicated to it or him 3 minutes they do or make a conclusion that at it or him psychological problems.
Whether it is correct? At home the child with pleasure communicates with relatives, plays with familiar people, willingly carries out tasks, skips and is worn, moderately huliganit. But it only houses as soon as leaves for a door - becomes meek and mild. Is engaged in several mugs or circles, but also there does not release or let off mother from itself and whenever possible minimizes dialogue with others, thus it is selective enough in contacts, to everyone concerns - to a miscellaneous. DDU does not visit or attend, I am going to to give since autumn to group of incomplete day, but reaction is unpredictable - for 3 years I (mum) and he were not separated more than at some o'clock. A problem that 90 % of time spend with mother, the rest of the time the father, children on a playground, sometimes visitors. Relatives participating in its or his life are not present more. Anybody on it or him does not press, since a birth full freedom of actions (in reasonable frameworks - that does not carry threat to health and a life) is given, a voice on it or him we do not raise or we increase practically. The father strongly pronounced intravert, is self-sufficient, dialogue with self quite suffices him, thus has reached or achieved the decent social status.
Whether there can be it at the child property of character or it is necessary to sound alarm? Whether there can be it consequence or investigation of a minimum quantity of agents of socialization?
What will you advise? (by the way, we were at the children's psychologist in 2, 5 years - in a direction of the logopedist as has late started talking - that internally communicated with the child and summarized that all with the order.)
Thanks big, Julia
Whether it is correct? At home the child with pleasure communicates with relatives, plays with familiar people, willingly carries out tasks, skips and is worn, moderately huliganit. But it only houses as soon as leaves for a door - becomes meek and mild. Is engaged in several mugs or circles, but also there does not release or let off mother from itself and whenever possible minimizes dialogue with others, thus it is selective enough in contacts, to everyone concerns - to a miscellaneous. DDU does not visit or attend, I am going to to give since autumn to group of incomplete day, but reaction is unpredictable - for 3 years I (mum) and he were not separated more than at some o'clock. A problem that 90 % of time spend with mother, the rest of the time the father, children on a playground, sometimes visitors. Relatives participating in its or his life are not present more. Anybody on it or him does not press, since a birth full freedom of actions (in reasonable frameworks - that does not carry threat to health and a life) is given, a voice on it or him we do not raise or we increase practically. The father strongly pronounced intravert, is self-sufficient, dialogue with self quite suffices him, thus has reached or achieved the decent social status.
Whether there can be it at the child property of character or it is necessary to sound alarm? Whether there can be it consequence or investigation of a minimum quantity of agents of socialization?
What will you advise? (by the way, we were at the children's psychologist in 2, 5 years - in a direction of the logopedist as has late started talking - that internally communicated with the child and summarized that all with the order.)
Thanks big, Julia