Tanja
19.05.2004, 14:07
The dear doctor, prompt, please, as to me to act in such situations - to the son of 7 years (in it or this to year has gone to 1 class) and quite often he does not obey me (time 10 it it is possible to call to eat; I ask to be going to more quickly before school and to not do or make extraneous affairs - all the same distracts and t. Item)
I ask it or him is " why you do not listen to me? In fact we are late in school, I am late for job. It is bad ". Responds me - " I the bad boy ". I in the answer - " was not present, you good, simply behave now badly. "
1. How correctly to respond, when the son names itself bad?
2. And as it is necessary to him to explain "common truths" - that it is impossible to be late, it is necessary to obey at once mum and t. Item?
Thanks for the answer!
I ask it or him is " why you do not listen to me? In fact we are late in school, I am late for job. It is bad ". Responds me - " I the bad boy ". I in the answer - " was not present, you good, simply behave now badly. "
1. How correctly to respond, when the son names itself bad?
2. And as it is necessary to him to explain "common truths" - that it is impossible to be late, it is necessary to obey at once mum and t. Item?
Thanks for the answer!