Ljuba
01.05.2004, 17:35
Hello!
Tell or Say please, as correctly itself a message in the given situation. Daughters of 12 years. Speaks, that wishes to be the singer. In general any morbid desire to be popular. Sees at school of such girls (itself to such does not carry) and suffers from it or this though voobshche-anybody it or her does not hammer in that, but there is any envy simply adjoining on an inferiority complex. Studies well. Financially secure, we dress it or her well in what it is not refused, but this popularity as I understand, something more complex or difficult when I ask to explain it or her, she does not understand, why this girl such though vobshchem-that in her anything is not present especial, and that for this purpose it is necessary. How much we would not speak, that it is better to be clever, than popular (is at school and such "class" of girls), does not help or assist. Me disturbs, that she does not aspire to a serious choice, she does not understand, that means to respect with itself, be engaged in useful business in which you longly studied and in general in anything longly to study does not want. In fact to her not 6 years when the child can assent and assure, that certainly, you will be the singer and to sleep easy, knowing, that all will pass or take place. At it or her it "is very rested" and "upertee" every year. And the most important, that no predilections for this purpose are present, any talent from a birth, and she considers or counts, that well sings. What to me to speak? The truth? What at it or her never nothing will turn out? What turns out at one of one million? But in fact it too a stick about two extremities or ends. And to assure it or her that will turn out, means to say lies. Also there is a second aspect, me simply starts to shake, when she gets or starts these conversations. I do not respect with this trade, at all I do not consider or I count it as a trade, I do not consider or I count this business worthy that to it or him;them to aspire, in general, aspiration to it or him;them I consider or count something abnormal in the person. What to do or make? How to behave with the daughter, to not cut on a root belief in and to not give vain hopes? And the most important, as though to switch it or her to something another. Thanks.
Tell or Say please, as correctly itself a message in the given situation. Daughters of 12 years. Speaks, that wishes to be the singer. In general any morbid desire to be popular. Sees at school of such girls (itself to such does not carry) and suffers from it or this though voobshche-anybody it or her does not hammer in that, but there is any envy simply adjoining on an inferiority complex. Studies well. Financially secure, we dress it or her well in what it is not refused, but this popularity as I understand, something more complex or difficult when I ask to explain it or her, she does not understand, why this girl such though vobshchem-that in her anything is not present especial, and that for this purpose it is necessary. How much we would not speak, that it is better to be clever, than popular (is at school and such "class" of girls), does not help or assist. Me disturbs, that she does not aspire to a serious choice, she does not understand, that means to respect with itself, be engaged in useful business in which you longly studied and in general in anything longly to study does not want. In fact to her not 6 years when the child can assent and assure, that certainly, you will be the singer and to sleep easy, knowing, that all will pass or take place. At it or her it "is very rested" and "upertee" every year. And the most important, that no predilections for this purpose are present, any talent from a birth, and she considers or counts, that well sings. What to me to speak? The truth? What at it or her never nothing will turn out? What turns out at one of one million? But in fact it too a stick about two extremities or ends. And to assure it or her that will turn out, means to say lies. Also there is a second aspect, me simply starts to shake, when she gets or starts these conversations. I do not respect with this trade, at all I do not consider or I count it as a trade, I do not consider or I count this business worthy that to it or him;them to aspire, in general, aspiration to it or him;them I consider or count something abnormal in the person. What to do or make? How to behave with the daughter, to not cut on a root belief in and to not give vain hopes? And the most important, as though to switch it or her to something another. Thanks.