It is a little maculae on the sun reflected in a retina of an eye chelov

[Xtut]

Time such wave on a forum has gone - to discuss something more interesting, except for analyses and signs with constant lymphonoduses and diarreej I shall risk also to throw a topic for discussion as the answer to this question is interesting to me. A short of a question in the following. In psychology there are no concepts "badly or "well", and is in exchange: " it is peculiar it is to a human nature or not and if yes, why? ". Therefore I ask to consider or examine;survey the given topic not as, Perish the thought, squaring of accounts (nobody's names here it is not remembered!) either arrival or a dirty trick. The general or common with the aforesaid he has no anything.


Me interests, what for to the person to be manufactured in the Virtual world? In fact here all almost guarantees full anonymity. What sense in it or this also what the person moves? No, it is possible to find certainly, on IP- for example if to not accept special measures against it or this but for that and what for it is necessary? In fact it as in a joke about Imperceptible Dzho - and to that he nafig is necessary? What purposes the person, constantly trying to extol pursues above others? What moves it or him when he is engaged in banal bragging in the Network? What for it is necessary for him and with what is connected? In other words, what he in it or this scoops? Really so all is bad in the real world?


What the person from regular primitive provotsirovanija receives other people, not shunning even transition to persons and trying to cause or call any, if only negative emotions at others? What a short the reason of it or this? What does he find in it or this and with what it is connected? Whether Is it consequence or investigation of the gone through violence over the childhood or constant humiliation and suppression of the person in family? Okuda such strong need or requirement for similar behaviour? What is it? Hatred and desire to revenge all white light? Then for what?


" Well I cannot understand that to me is not clear! " - so in fact, Jane? We shall tell or say, I never shall begin to brag of myself or the successes and never I shall show the superiority before other person, more likely on the contrary even if to eat than be proud. I shall always prefer, if something I cost or stand, that others if will find or consider necessary have expressed it or this... And, by the way, too WHY?


I not the psychologist, and the technical expert, probably therefore to me am closer the exact sciences and most likely to these or it;this I can explain the desire to get to the bottom of a short, as well as why to me the answer to these questions is unknown. Probably, that could also itself on some questions to respond (a little all the same was on light...), but I do not have not enough information and special knowledge in this area.


Perhaps there are among readers of a forum people with psychological education or is simple psychologists from the God? There can be somebody can throw light on questions interesting me? In any case I shall be extremely grateful to any person expressed here the opinion.


Yours faithfully to any proved heterodoxy and to People,





Yours Simen





P.S. Jane, I quickly progress and I do or make successes as my phobia disappears.

[Poluks]

Seamen... In-:web-it a place where the people who are being far apart can communicate... In-:web-it a place where it is possible to be though sometimes sincere... To speak that you want, but in real to yourself you will not allow... For the different reasons... Here you such what is... rasslabuha for brains... Well and that moves people to throw mud the friend to the friend-not I know...

[Krupskaja]

Masks all it at what, people so with them sroslis, that at times you will not distinguish where the present or true person and where its or his mask. Bragging, arrogance is a mask. Under her something disappears, dazh in virtuality, it is simple has already put a habit. Here also repeat that the best... To look or see At itself from not the destiny simply. And in general nobody assures associates so of the honesty as the liar, nobody assures of the boldness how the coward both t d and t item Means, that who assures of the success, actually in what is not successful, though about successes can speak and the truth... Something Means not absolutely so, in other area... At whom all so, does not sit at forum Nedug. Ru (if a current from not figs to do or make, but what for then to assure all that is terribly borrowed or occupied)) Well here though that would not speak me)

[Masa]

Reks


Has written a huge topic, but a network sbojnula and nothing has gone... And has now looked or seen and even by and large to tell or say there is nothing, except for how to join.


But I shall try or taste.


Simply person in a network tries to make on associates that opinion which has about itself, and those agents which as he considers or counts, for this purpose is better approach or suit...


If the person tries to make impression vysokointellektualnogo and considers or counts skill to quote another's statements in occasion of and without an occasion display of intelligence he will necessarily screw pair citations in the posts... If the person considers or counts as display of intelligence any facts from the biography (IN, for example, or still something) also they will be added... If there is a desire to make impression successful the attributes of the success important for the given person (job, for example) will be mentioned...


So it is not necessary to be the psychologist, here all is simple.

[Ksen]

The author: REX


Date: 11-14-04 16:22





... And in general nobody assures associates so of the honesty as the liar, nobody assures of the boldness how the coward both t d and t item Means, that who assures of the success, actually in what is not successful......





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The author: little_monkey


Date: 10-29-04 15:37





..... I inform, that I am young, attractive and happy with a life, at me good job and the perfect daughter. Also at me was two marriages or spoilage, the initiator of break in both cases was I and it at all has not belittled my self-rating....





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Reks, completely I join the aforesaid you.

[Mafia]

Enigma


Who without a sin, that let the first will throw in it or her a stone... But not to you to throw...

[annrsdc]

" Vanity is definitely my favorite sin... ". THE DEVIL'S ADVOCATE (R).








(" Vanity - definitely my the most liked from defects.... " Film " the Lawyer of the Devil ")





As the question has been set by the author in extremely intelligent, correct and friendly form I shall dare luxury to respond this time to it or him seriously.





I up to the certain degree very vain person. Everything, that is at me in a life is a will of a case and my own achievements. So has developed.





It is possible to keep silent, turn and with a proud kind to depart. But it already will be not I, it already will be not in my character. On the one hand, I very shy, constraining, silent (at a forum there are people who communicated and saw me personally)....... And with another - irreconcilable (as has correctly noticed Reks), obstinate and energetic.





If someone, not knowing me, with a contemptious smile exclaims: " And what price to your body and intelligence?! " - well, I am ready to be late here, at a forum and to tell to this person..... If someone, not knowing me, and also those late sleepless evenings after job, when I, made the husband a supper, having played with the child, having read through him the book and having put to bed, late prepared to GMAT to enter one of the best business of schools of America, usmeshlivo exclaims: " I would prefer most to enter MIT, than to marry its or his graduate for reception of the best genes " - well, I is ready and to be late in this case at a forum and to him it to tell....... Let and he, if will find or consider necessary, will tell, and that HE HAS made for this purpose.





For there are words and desire "to seem" someone and to make "something", and there are objective facts, events and acts.





I really am not proud of it or this. For the only thing that-it forces me to be proud my child whom I have left and has given a life, despite of vicissitudes of life. Besides as I have already told or said, much depends on a case - me, probably, has simply carried. But it allows me to be here...... The nobility to itself the price to communicate with those people who are interesting to me and at that level on which it is interesting to me.

[Natalip]

Reks, I if you have noticed, have only quoted dear Little_Monkey.





Following your logic, she in herself " has thrown a stone ".





I doubt, what is it so.

[Toljan]

Anonymity gives, eventually, the maximal frankness and an openness, equalizes people, if not on a level of mental development, hotjaby on interests, problems and vozrostnomu to an attribute, etc.


Can it is dry but in a subject.


And those who show aggression or the superiority in anonymous dialogue, these are those who does not presume it or this in real zhizini (i.e. "weak" people). But there are incidents since it is impossible to estimate or appreciate completely the interlocutor under avaricious reports in a topic.

[dm223]

Can will suffice, girls?!... zadolbali already... A pancake, it is opposite to look... Guys, and you that that?... Only butters or oils to fire add.

[_]

Enigma


Yes I actually add nothing. I do not understand simply to that what to prove that want? Well the serious life was, now success. Well. You want that were glad or pleased for you together with you? Well I am glad for you! Without having pinned. The contemptious smile is caused not with success. And that form in which all it is presented not clearly for what. Well everything so live and be pleased, please others... Do not overestimate the price to success, a body, intelligence... It will estimate or appreciate and without you, except for that it and so yours and anybody on it does not apply also nothing will take away...





And to quote costs or stands nobody, manki it was only protected from your attacks, spoke the truth... Irritates in you intrusion into private life of others then when about it or this nobody asks you, moreover the form with which you you climb there where you do not ask... Ento too pushes away people at a forum.

[p.oleg]

Reks


Thanks, you the present or true friend!








For those who not in a subject - a repetition of dialogue with ljubitelnitsej gossips:








The author: Enigma


Date: 10-29-04





Little_Monkey, calm down.





In your words the pain is felt by the lonely, tired, exhausted life of the woman. I understand this pain, therefore would not like to aggravate conversation.








The author: Enigma


Date: 10-29-04





Jane,





All we communicate at a forum, sometimes in aske. To me told about serious life Little_Monkey much...








The author: little_monkey


Date: 10-29-04





... To an Enigma it seems to them impossible to leave this subject alone, I inform, that I am young, attractive and happy with a life, at me good job and the perfect daughter. Also at me was two marriages or spoilage, the initiator of break in both cases was I and it at all has not belittled my self-rating...





Here so...

[gulika]

By the way, has forgotten to tell or say, that to me very much flatters to be the quoted Enigma which has chosen me from all collective of a forum for an illustration to this topic.


PS it is not necessary to respond To it "please".

[Dimitry]

little_monkey


Yes do not strain and do not assimilate, ento it or her will amuse...

[Noisy]

In general be able to be silent, when your word, the cheat, that ulovljat will cripple fools)

[Salamander]

Reks


Simply night, I is happy, to sleep it would not be desirable, the happiness overflowing me is ready to present though a little to somebody, even to an Enigma, let is amused

[onoto]

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[Mark]

Well and so, can not in a subject slightly, there is at me a friend shouts that likes all, the wife likes, from which walks, the child likes from the wife but as business is has reached or cunning divorce so of the alimony was frightened) Let alone that that so money to give... The Mistress shouts likes, and itself is going to goes to club, finds another and sleeps with that of whom has picked up) Then is distressed) the Friends likes and betrays... So he is asked whom likes? I suspect, what even to myself protiven already... Here and so...

[JareK]

Reks


It, certainly, would be necessary in a topic about changes to throw, well good... Something is complex or difficult to tell or say about the person according to at second hand, but is also such, it seems to me, these people simply substitute feelings, t.e.on thinks, that that he feels to the wife is a love, that he feels to friends - most that on is friendship, but actually it is self-deception... More precisely not the self-deception, and a deceit of because he just likes, and from all situations searches for an opportunity to leave with benefit for itself, not thinking about those whom "likes"...


I do not think, that you needed my opinion, simply for some reason do not know any address of a chat on a server of Moscow, and to sleep it would not be desirable absolutely...

[Natysya]

nea, itself too only shows that likes... By the way it or him I do not condemn already, are confused everything, itself too not Saccharum... Well and a chat you want creep, I tozh to sleep yet I do not want...





http: // narod.yandex.ru/chat/chat_enter.xhtml? mychat_id=10201549


The password 12345


I shall revive old customs

[Cayotsha]

Reks


Chat any abnormal... I already under two nikami there, but I a fig not there.

[olmy]

Yes gljuchit it or him... Soap is I to you number or room aski I shall throw off if want.

[Elle]

Reks


Can you will come into a chat on www. * $ %? Though he to you and not on a subject, but there is come easier...

[baksan]

I not at home, here aska am not established or installed... And 2 there is a horse-radish knows where, and here the network while only to Moscow is adjusted or set up

[KLEO]

Simen:


In a topic has read through only your post, others was not in time. I have understood about what you speak. Time is necessary to me what to respond.


Progress on the face, should please it. The desire to discuss any questions, except for analyses is important, what, went consensually, instead of under pressure itself on own consciousness. Then with confidence it is possible to speak about full convalescence.